Let's be honest, the best part about Thanksgiving is getting to eat until you're more than stuffed. The worst part for a lot of people is having to sit at the dinner table and talk with family about politics, school, and relationships. Most college students are over these conversations. If you're worried about what questions or topics your family will bring up this holiday, try changing the conversation to one of these safe topics instead.
1. Most recent movie you've seen
Talk about the last movie you saw, or ask other people what they've seen recently or want to go see. Everyone can talk about something they're interested in since there are always new movies, there are a plethora of genres, and everyone has a favorite movie.
2. Best TV show
Similar to talking about movies, talk about what TV shows you're watching. College students live off their netflix binges, so this will be no problem for them. It's also interesting to see what each generation at the table is into.
3. What people are wearing
Compliment your family members on their earrings, tie, or new shoes. It's something safe and simple, and can make someone smile. This most likely won't result in a long conversation, but at least you'll feel at ease for a little bit. This could also be a good way to drop some hints about clothes you want for Christmas.
4. Adult things
Everyone has some adult problem to talk about, like the fridge not working, or having to buy a new lamp because the cat knocked the old one over. This gives people a chance to complain without ranting for hours on end.
5. Random questions
My family likes to play a game every holiday we're together where we ask questions like, "If Mom was a traffic sign, what would she be?" Take turns having each person at the table ask a question about the person next to them. This can definitely lead into some fun conversations.
6. What you're thankful for
It's called Thanksgiving for a reason. Go around the table and say one thing you're genuinely thankful for.
7. Food
Again, the best part about Thanksgiving is the food. Just talk about how great the mashed potatoes are. If someone so happens to ask you something you don't want to answer, just keep shoveling food into your mouth. After all, it's rude to talk with your mouth full. Or just do this:
Happy Thanksgiving!
