R.I.P. College Memories

R.I.P. College Memories

A moment of silence to honor these fine establishments.

I write this with a heavy heart. To think about the places that fostered so many friendships and some of my fondest memories at college no longer exist is actually pretty depressing. But instead of being sad, let's remember and cherish these small-town establishments that played such an important role in my time at Murray State. I'm sure many of you feel the same way.

Mary's Kitchen

So, Mary's technically still exists, but it's not the same! Mary's moved from their legendary spot behind Zaxby's to the court square, shutting down their late hours and attempting to class up the joint with the title "bistro." As I remember, it was the place to go in the wee hours of the night for some pancakes, smothered breakfast, or the infamous rolls with strawberry butter. You were almost guaranteed to run into everyone at this shoebox-sized restauraunt, even if it was 4 a.m. on a Wednesday.

Don Taco

Two words: CHICKEN. NACHOS. If you weren't feeling Mary's in the middle of the night, you had another option until 3 a.m. The best part? They delivered! However, it was one of those meals that only tasted good with alcohol in your system. Wouldn't recommend eating sober, trust me. I'm still extremely bitter they closed, but at least Agave now occupies their former location.

El Mariachi Loco

Before Mr. J's, this was the place everyone congregated on Thursday nights. A huge outdoor patio, a raging dance floor, and cheap drinks—what more could you ask for? Unfortunately, it was a giant underage hot spot (hence the closing.) I have to admit, my heart sank when I saw that hideous, colorful building bulldozed to the ground.


Once upon a time, you had to drive outside the Murray city limits to purchase packaged liquor and beer. This is when you called your 21 and up friends, piled in a car, and took a trip "down south" to Mac's. However, after Calloway County ruled in favor of their college youths to go "wet" in 2012, the 30-minute booze cruise was no longer necessary and neither was Mac's overpriced business.

Vitello's "The Olive"

The first place I ever experienced night life in Murray. You only had to be 18 to get in, but they watched you like a hawk to see if you took a sip of alcohol. If you got caught, they photocopied your ID, hung it on the wall of shame, and you were banned for a month. Nevertheless, it used to be a prime place to hang out due to its proximity to campus and lively porch. It was also an ideal location to drink, listen, and watch the quad during All Campus Sing. Today, the building has received a much-needed face-lift and is now the home of Tap 216.

The Night Owl

When you were looking to have the most random night out in Murray, Kentucky, you could stroll a few steps off campus to this little hookah joint. However, I mostly enjoyed The Night Owl for their dance floor. Low key and the best dance floor in the entire town, just not enough people knew about this hidden gem. Also, the fact that they didn't or couldn't sell alcohol was a major buzzkill.

The Old Phi Tau House

The home of my favorite memories freshman year, right next door to AGR. It was the place for epic parties between Phi Tau and Pike every weekend. Yes, you heard that right. They even had TFM-worthy theme names like Frat-tastic Friday and Sloppy Saturday. And of course, the night wasn't complete without a performance by Trubz N' Matlock in the Annex. What is this house now? I think it's home to some random businesses or a real estate office. I could be wrong, but it's definitely not a place to #PartyTilTheBusComes anymore.

Cover Image Credit: Murray Ledger & Times

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Christian Boys Vs. Godly Men

It is time to stop settling for the lesser of the two.

Ladies, there is a huge difference between a Christian boy and a Godly man; therefore, it is time to stop settling for the lesser of the two.

So many times I hear girls saying:

“Well, he’s a Christian.”

“He goes to church with me.”

“He listens to Christian music.”

“He went to church camp.”

“He has a favorite bible verse.”

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Well, all of those things are just peachy and there is nothing wrong with doing those things. I mean, they’re all good things to do. But how is his personal relationship with God? How is his prayer life? Does he talk about his relationship with God, with you? Is he truly a follower of the one true God in all aspects of his life? These are some of the characteristics you should be looking for that makes a Godly man.

Ladies, a man will love you great when he loves God greater.

A Godly man will pursue an honest relationship with you. He will be clear of his intentions. A Godly man will worship, pray and passionately praise God with you. Whereas, a Christian boy might open the door for you, a Godly man will open his bible and explore God’s word with you so that you both may grow spiritually, together. While a Christian boy may put on an outward show, a Godly man will live out the love of Jesus daily.

So ladies, are you catching on to this ongoing trend? A Godly man does more because you deserve more.

A Godly man will be a leader. Trust me, I know that in today’s society Godly men are few and far between while Christian boys come in plenty. But you deserve a man who is after God’s heart not just a boy who goes to church. And I know that this Christian boy may seem great and have some really stellar qualities at the time but money and looks fade, whereas, an ongoing love for our savior will not.

The greatest thing a man can do for a woman is to lead her closer to God than himself. (Yes, yes, yes).

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So I beg of you, do not settle. Do not settle just because you’re tired of being single, it’s convenient or because you want the relationship your friend has. Single does not equal available and a relationship status does not define you. God uses your season of singleness to prepare you for what is to come. And if you’re dating a Christian boy, he needs to step it up or you need to move on. Wait for a Godly man who is ready to lead you. God’s timing is always better, always. No matter the circumstance. So, do not rush God. (I mean, He is, after all, pretty good at His job). Therefore, turn your full focus to Him and He will direct your path.

“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Matthew 6:33

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Please Stop Asking Me If or When My Company Is Going Under

Don't make assumptions based on what rumors you read on the internet. The internet is not always right.


Technology is integrated into practically everything we do in 2019.

Online shopping and digital purchases have made shopping more accessible than ever for consumers. However, with the significant increase in online shopping, brick and mortar stores have been feeling the impacts. We have seen that with places like Borders, Toys R Us, Blockbuster, and more.

I currently work for a company that has felt the effects of online purchasing options. We have worked and still actively work to adapt and embrace the increase in digital purchases.

Thanks to people who seem to take enjoyment in spreading false rumors have caused some frustrations with me as well as other retail workers. Almost every day during my shift, I have at least one guest who will either ask if my company is going out of business or they "know" that it is going to go out of business. I typically respond to these questions and assumptions by replying something like "I'll go work for McDonald's" or "It is what it is." I honestly do not understand how people expect us, retail employees, to react when they say something like that.

I am already wondering whether the money and energy I put into earning my bachelor's degree are ever going to be worth it. I am working to pay bills and student loans until I find a more "big girl" job. I can do without the baseless and needless speculations. Even if a store or company is at risk of "going under," what would make you think that a retail store worker would know? We are the last to know anything.

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