The Repercussions Of Being Impulsive
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The Repercussions Of Being Impulsive

Following your heart comes with its downfalls.

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The Repercussions Of Being Impulsive
Shayen-Joe Sakr

There are two types of people when it comes to decision-making: those who put serious consideration into what they do and those who act impulsively. I have always been an impulsive decision maker. Some have praised me for it, and others have shamed me and even scolded me for it. Making rash decisions is part of who I am, and although I do not wish to change this characteristic, I am finally becoming aware of its consequences.

If you grew up following your heart, as I did, then you probably based the majority of your decisions on your freshest, truest feelings. Of course, you must have had limitations at times, but only when you knew they were absolutely necessary. This mindset, undoubtedly, leads to some interesting experiences. Luckily, my seemingly absurd actions always happened to work out in my favor. There were times when my choices were questionable, but I have rarely regretted a decision, which is I why I continue to act as I always have: irrationally.

Rationality. This is a quality people who follow their hearts often lack. The only logic behind following one's heart is that it seems like the right thing to do. Up until very recently, I was convinced that it really was always the right thing to do. Now, I'm not so sure. I have come to question my rash decisions because it has come to my attention that they have repercussions. You can't expect to spontaneously make a wild, life-altering decision without having to deal with the consequences.

I had an epiphany regarding my actions soon after I impulsively decided to cut my hair and proceed to dye it about four shades lighter. This seems like a trivial decision because after all, it is just hair, but it was this very decision that made me reconsider my past choices. I stayed up all night thinking, and I came to the conclusion that my hair was symbolic of my life. I do things without taking into consideration the consequences that might occur. I am, what some may consider, reckless.

Becoming aware of how you act is important, but it does not necessarily mean you have to change. Yes, I regretted dying my hair such a drastic color and that may make me reckless, but following my heart is part of who I am. Some decisions require thought rather than impulse, so it is crucial you know when that is the case.

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