How To Deal With Toxic Friends Online

Toxic People Are Just That, Toxic, So It's Time To Unfollow, Unlike And Unsubscribe

Click that unfollow button, you'll be glad you did.


Have you ever been in a situation where you were friends with somebody for so long and then after a while, you drift apart or something bad happens and you realize just how crappy of a friend they were? How do we not realize the warning signs and red flags? Do we ignore these signs on purpose? I think we just get so invested in the friendship, we fail to recognize their wrongdoings.

In this day and age, unfollowing people on social media is like committing a crime. Oh, you unfollowed so and so? What a terrible person you are! Off to internet jail, you go.

You know what? Cutting people off because they are toxic is OK! It's time to start telling yourself, "Who cares if they get offended?" "Who cares if they unfollow you back?" Cutting people off isn't a resignation later, there's no explanation required as for what your reasons were. You don't owe anyone that. Don't feel bad for unfollowing/deleting someone. You're doing this for you, not for anyone else.

If you're on Snapchat, Instagram, etc. and you see a post that doesn't make you feel good and it's just affecting you in a negative way, that's a tell-tale sign that you need to delete them. Over the years, I've deleted so many people I used to be friends with. Why am I going to keep you on social media if you don't add value to my life anymore? If you wronged me? If I keep you, I'm just allowing all of that negativity in and I don't want that. What if I end up unknowingly taking on their traits?

I'm trying to get into a different mindset. I'm trying to surround myself with positive people and be in a positive environment and if someone isn't contributing to that and causing me to feel bad about myself or whatever the case may be, they can't be in my life. It's harsh, it's the truth, and it's real.

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An Open Letter To My Unexpected Best Friend

You came out of nowhere and changed my life for the better.

“It's so amazing when someone comes to your life and you expect nothing out of it, but suddenly, there right in front of you is everything you ever need."


Dear Unexpected Best Friend,

You were the person I never thought I would speak to and now you are my very best friend. You came out of nowhere and changed my life for the better. I can't thank you enough for everything you have done to shape me into the person I am today. You've taught me what it means to be selfless, caring, patient, and, more importantly, adventurous.

You don't realize how much better my life has become and all because you came out of nowhere. I didn't see you coming. I just saw you on occasion, and now I can't see my life without you in it. It's funny how life works itself out like that. Our unexpected friendship filled a hole in my life that I didn't know existed.

I don't even remember what life was like before you came along; it most likely had a lot less laughter and spontaneity than it does today. I can call you about anything and you would drop whatever you're doing to help me in any situation. You know when I need encouragement. You know when I am at my best and when I am at my worst. You always know exactly what to say.

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I couldn't have found a better friend than you if I tried. We balance each other out in the best way possible. You are most definitely the yin to my yang, and I don't care how cliché that sounds. Because of you, I've learned to stop caring what people think and to do my own thing regardless of any backlash I might receive. You are my very favorite part of what makes me who I am to this day.

It's as if I wished up a best friend, and poof — you appeared right in front of me. I am so beyond blessed to have you and I wouldn't trade the world for all our memories. Thanks for coming out of nowhere.

Love you forever and a day.

Cover Image Credit: Lauren Medders

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10 Fun Things You Should Do With Your College Friends Before Summer

Before your friend from New York heads back home, grab her and enjoy her company while you can.



1. Go on a shopping spree for summer clothes

2. Try out a new restaurant

3. Get matching tattoos (or henna if this is too extreme)

4. Get piercings together

5. Go bowling with a group of friends

6. Go skydiving

7. Go explore a zoo

8. Go on a hiking trail

9. Plan out a weekend to meet over the summer

10. P-A-R-T-Y!!

In college, you meet people from all over the world. Though when you become best friends with those people it is hard to say goodbye when the college year ends. Hopefully, these ideas will help you say goodbye easier (it will definitely be hard but at least you have these memories to hold on too)!


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