Something I've noticed is that people in their early 20's desperately seek companionship, even if it's bullshit. I've just turned 23 and on the spectrum of actual time, I'm still a child. Let's be real, no one in their early 20's knows entirely what they want to do with their lives and who they actually are. If we subjectively approach this, college students especially perpetuate this belief that a boyfriend or girlfriend is exactly what they need. False. And I'll tell you why.

First off, financial management in the early 20's is pretty hard but essential if you want to get anywhere in life. Why on earth would you want to share the minimal finances you'll produce in your college years with another person who is most likely going to consume at a rate that is equivalent to yours. Is it worth it? It's really nice to be single and be able to spend your own money on your self and not worry about anyone else. I think the stigma about being single is underrated. Independent abilities are critical in order for a relationship to work out so without a time period of being alone, how can one be taught the lessons that life has to offer?

Secondly, it can lead to a giant mistake. One thing I've heard many people older than me say, is that I should not regret life. Isn't it possible to be blinded by lust and realize that the person you're with isn't who you want to be with at a time where it could be too late? I don't ever want to be the guy that realizes I made a mistake 2 kids later.

Traveling. Have you ever just decided to buy a plane ticket or drive to a different state? Yes? No? Well, it's exhilarating and necessary in my belief. We as humans were designed to travel; it's why we have legs and arms. But sometimes life will trick us into believing that we don't have to leave or go outside of our bubble. This is why I also belief that relationships are underrated because marrying a high school sweet heart drastically narrows the limitless experiences one can have.

We're supposed to live life and learn through experiences and I think it's about time someone talked about how great it is to be single. We need to understand that we need to learn on our own and not become so dependent on other people. Relationships are overrated and can end up being a giant waste of money and time. Just go with the flow, appreciate the moment given, and live your life to the fullest.