First things first: I love Netflix. What I don't love is to "Netflix and chill."
Now, if "Netflix and chill" took a literal meaning and we would just watch a movie or marathon a good TV show maybe while enjoying some delicious pizza or takeout, then I would be more willing to come hang out (especially if I like you). If you're trying to use Netflix as some gateway to an impromptu booty call, please don't call me.
Potential suitors, listen up:
If you want to spend time with me, ask me out on a date.
I get it, dating can be scary. People don't want to seem too desperate or eager because showing emotions nowadays is considered "unattractive." It's common to act like you don't care, don't want labels, and don't want anything serious. But, in a world where casual seems to be taking over, going on dates should always be a trend. Dates do not always have to be elaborate, expensive events. Sure, going to an expensive restaurant is a date but going to grab a meal at your favorite diner is also a date. Spending time at the park on a beautiful day is a date. Bowling is a date. Almost anything can be considered a date. The only requirement for something to be a date is that you need to put some thought into what you do. Don't let the word "date" scare you.
I want to get to know you.
"Netflix and chill" seems so impersonal. If you're going to "Netflix and chill" with someone, talking is probably the last thing you guys are doing. Communication is the most important part of any relationship, especially if you're just getting to know each other. I enjoy having conversations with others. I love getting to know people. I want to know your favorite color, or what movie you can watch 100 times and still laugh, or what music comforts you during hard times. Even if we realize we're better off as friends, I still want to know these things. Let's focus on learning about each other instead of just having a good time.
I don't like to waste my time.
If all you want from me is instant physical gratification, I'm honestly not interested. If all you want to do is "Netflix and chill," that says to me you don't really care about me or you're not serious about a relationship. If that's true, please don't waste my time.
I don't mean to seem judgmental or like all I want to do is bash the male species because that is not my intention. I'm not one to say that all guys are the same, but they sure do like to try some of the same moves. If you're a fan of "Netflix and chill," I don't think you're a bad person. I am all for doing whatever makes you happy. We just have different interests, which is fine. Just don't ask me to be the girl to "Netflix and chill" with you, because I will refuse. Every. Single. Time.
But if you actually want to binge-watch The Office or something, then maybe I'll reconsider.
