I can honestly say my first semester of college has been a complete roller coaster full of ups, downs, twists, and turns. I can admit that the transition was a lot scarier than I thought it would be. The transition sort of hit me out of nowhere, and I wasn’t prepared in any of the right places. When I first ventured out into the college world, I was eager to be independent—the mere satisfaction of being able to decide what I should do for myself and being able to make my own decisions seemed all too good to be true.

There was this concept of newness and excitement-- New city, new atmosphere, different people, new food, and a new party culture. Coming from the south, this was almost a culture shock to me; but I adjusted fairly quickly. Looking back, I realized I tried to do too many things at once—I spread myself too thin. I strived for perfection in every aspect and area of my life. I had to stop, take a breath, and reorganize my thoughts. Managing time was the most difficult while everything hit me at once.

Looking back, I can most definitely say I am so thankful and lucky to have found a family, a home, a support system, and the best friends I could ever have: my roommates. I honestly am not sure what I would ever do without them, or the random Taylor Swift jam sessions, the random dance parties, our Friends poster-covered walls, the quote wall full of the most hilarious things said since the first day of college, going shopping together, telling each other our most valuable secrets and stories, ice skating, hot chocolate, movies, and lastly, being there for each other, no matter what.

To my roommates my freshman year of college: thank you for making me so incredibly happy, on my best and even worst days.

The most important lesson I have learned is to never give up—ever. Even if you feel like you really can’t try anymore, keep going. There’s always a way; but you’ll never know until you try again. Always think of the end goal, the finish line you’re striving for, the dream you’re trying to achieve.

Care for others, and always take into consideration how the other person might feel, what they could be going through, and give your best support to those who surround you. Life is honestly so so short, so don’t be stuck in one place.

Try some new things, get out and live. You never know who you could come across, what you could learn, or what fun you’ll have.

I also realized how much I really do miss having a dishwasher, a laundry machine, and home cooked food.