Reasons To Befriend A Non-Traditional Student
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Reasons To Befriend A Non-Traditional Student

In the real world friends vary in age and background.

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Reasons To Befriend A Non-Traditional Student
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In small universities like JSU you'll find students varying in age and background. What's really amazing is when you make friends that are so diverse from getting involved on campus. Make no assumptions about people going back for their degree, going to grad school, or getting their second degree. They get involved just like any other student and they want their time here to be enjoyable.

1. They have more life experience than you

This doesn't necessarily mean they are any smarter or wiser than their colleagues, but it does mean that they've most likely been through more break ups, hangovers, and fights with friends than you. They can give some amazing advice and know exactly what you need to hear in those moments.

2. They offer different fun than just partying

Some of my grad school friends still throw down, but many of them like to show up to class without wearing sunglasses. They probably know some spots in town that are free of other college students, or fun activities that aren't too expensive (we're all broke here).

3. They can teach you a thing or two about life


From budgeting to relationships that just aren't worth it, they can guide you in the right direction. What's a mortgage? They could probably write their thesis on it. Plus certain advice sticks better when it's not from your parents.

4. You can help them out too

It can be a little scary, frustrating, or uncomfortable for someone to step into what some view as an eighteen-year-old's world. Making the first step to reach out to them will make them feel welcomed.

5. They might know more about the school than you

While you were yawning at the ice breakers during orientation, they were actually paying attention to all of the ins and outs of the school. They know all of the organizations, unheard of scholarships, and basically anything that might help them during their time at school. You can share with them the national party ranking of the school. (Don't act like you didn't at least look.)

6. They don't mind helping you


One thing about our generation is that we have F.O.M.O. (the fear of missing out). Have you ever noticed that not many friends will be there for you for an important project or blow you off last minute? I know it varies from case to case, but my older friends tend to not blow me off like my younger friends have. It means so much to a friend to be there for them even when you could be doing something more enjoyable.

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