It's a common thing now a days to have a child at a young age. I graduated a year ago and quite a few of my former classmates either have a child on the way or already have a child. One of my best friends has a lovely daughter who I love dearly. I would of never expected any of my close friends to have kids soon after graduation but it happened. I may not see him as much anymore due to the fact that I'm away at college most days, or he is busy at work but I still am a witness to how having a child earlier than expected can effect your life.
Having a job may have been crucial to pay the bills but now you're not only paying bills, you're also providing for your tiny human. Every time I see her she has grown so much. Everyone always says that at family gatherings and I never really saw or understood what they meant until now. I can see why you don't spend all your money when we go out like we used to, that kid eats a lot. Let's not begin to mention the amount of money you spend on formula, diapers, and clothes, she grows out of whatever I buy her in such a short amount of time. You've learned what is needed and what is wanted, you have also learned how to budget your money. I'm proud of you.
This child has impacted your life in more ways than I thought she could. You have learned many things about love. You have learned what is best for her, not only for her but for both of you. It was extremely difficult, not only for you but for all of us who stood by your side as you realized it. I told you things will get better over time for you, and they have. Things will always continue to get better because of the great support system you have.
You have matured quite a bit. When she isn't around it's always fun to goof around like our old selves but you're definitely different when she is around, in a good way. You think before you act, that isn't something you always did in the past. If she needs you at 3am you're right by her side. The old you would have asked someone else to take care of her. You're a great father and I could not be more proud of you. She may not have been planned but it doesn't matter. Yes, it is more difficult now since you are trying to figure out a career/school but you're making it work and she sure knows how to light up your life.
