15 Questions you are too afraid to ask your crush.

15 Questions you are too afraid to ask your crush.

These are the questions you would love to know about your potential soulmate. I just wrote them down.
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Raise your hands if you have the guts to interview your crush. Anyone? No? Well, neither do I. But I bet we all have a plethora of questions we would love to know the answers to. Well, there are many types of crushes. There are celebrity crushes and then there are normal people crushes. For the sake of this article, I've chosen one of my crushes that is a mixture of these categories. He is a local celebrity of sorts I had the pleasure of meeting. He is super talented so I know that once he goes to his next destination, he is going to be big news. Before we get into this article, I want to make everyone aware of this little disclaimer. Writers are crazy. Even more important, I am crazy. There is no way I want my crush to know how I feel but the best thing about writing is being able to connect fantasy into reality. It feels great to connect with your audience on a personal level because it reminds us all that we are not alone and feeling these things are normal and apart of what it means to be human. Well, let’s get to the list.

1. What is your favorite color?

This is a question I have asked this person. You have no idea how this has changed my life. Looking at the sky makes me happier now. Every time I see this color, my train of thought goes everywhere but where it should be.

2. What is your favorite food?

Have you ever seen those movies where some rich guy sends his crush truckloads of their favorite foods/things? Yeah if I were rich I would want to do the same but I'm just a tiny college student in the world of adulthood and bills.

3. What is your idea of a perfect date?

Wouldn't you like to know about the important things? I mean, would you not want to know where to go on your first date? I would. I want to know how romantic this individual is.

4. Are you single? Or nah?

Ok... generally I don't care because I'd probably never ask him on a date. Just looking at him makes me feel fluttery. But if he just so happens to be single then... (insert eyeball emoji)

5. When is your birthday?

Well if you are like me, you already know the answer to this question. I find out as much as I can when my crushes first develop... and we happen to be Facebook friends.

6. Do you have any allergies?

Ok, so, let’s just say that in grade school I almost accidentally killed a kid...

7. Wanna hang out?

How sweet would it be to spend a day with your possible soulmate? Personally, I would probably have a heart attack, but I wouldn't mind if I can sit near him.

8. So did you know you are super cute?

There is nothing better than an attractive person with an attractive personality IDC IDC IDC.

9. So did you work on being cute or...?

Like honestly.

10. Have any talents?

Well of course I already know this answer since I've experienced these talents first hand. Excuse me while I fan girl.

11. How do you define love?

Of course, we all don't have the same definition. I personally do not have a single clue what love is. I imagine it is warm when you are cold and smells like fried chicken. I absolutely adore fried chicken. I am interested to know what he thinks.

12. What are your non-career related goals?

I know what his career goals are mostly. I mean if you are in college, you get an idea from their declared major. But I'm more interested in knowing if he wants to get married and get a hypoallergenic doggie and have little versions of him running around. I am interested to know whether he wants to eat tacos every Tuesday or pizza every Friday.

13. What things do you hate?

People have pet peeves. I don't want a deal breaker before I can make a deal.

14. Do you know how I feel about you?

This is one of those dangerous questions. If I knew that he knew how much I absolutely adore him, I might just die. However, I would want to know if he did know just as much as I didn't.

15. Do you like me back?

This is the most dangerous question of them all. This question changes lives. Knowing whether your crush likes you will determine what path your life takes. It would be devastating to find out that your crush thinks that you are a repulsive being. I would crawl under a rock and die if I found out he hated me. On the other hand, If I found out that he liked me even a little tiny bit I would probably have a heart attack and die. What would you do if you found out that your crush likes you?


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If you are a boy and you are reading this, plan one of these dates and you'll make your girlfriend the happiest person alive. Yeah, you can thank me later.

1. Go to a pumpkin patch.

This may be super basic but who doesn't want a cute little pumpkin around Halloween time. Usually, you will take a hayride to the pumpkin patch which is always a nice time to spend together. It will also be really cute seeing how excited she gets over finding the perfect little pumpkin.

2. Go on a hayride.

If you go to a pumpkin patch you may have the opportunity to go on a hayride and you definitely should! You will get to see all around the farm and the scenery is usually beautiful in the fall with the leaves changing colors!

3. Go apple picking.

This date will always allow for a cute photo shoot opportunity and everyone will be able to see your Insta post later captioned "the apple of my eye." Also, if you love apples what better place to get them then a local farm where you pick them yourself! Make sure you check your local farm to see when your favorite apples will be ready for harvest!

4. Bake something together.

There are so many amazing recipes for fall, apple pie being one of them. Which will be the perfect thing to bake with your S.O. after apple picking (two dates in one)!

5. Go to a local festival.

No matter where you are from there are probably a ton of local festivals around you throughout the fall. Whether it is a food festival, fall fest, music festival or even a lantern festival all of them are usually a perfect date. You can experience new things together and enjoy the fall weather.

6. Go to a football game.

Whether it is high school, college, or a professional football game any football is good football in the fall. Between a fun tailgate and an exciting game, if you are into sports football is the way to go.

7. Walk or hike around a state park.

No matter where you are from there are always state parks around you! Fall is the perfect time to go on an outdoor because it's not too hot to too cold. The scenery is always beautiful with all of the leaves changing colors. If there is a lake you could always go kayaking or paddle boating!

8. Visit your local farm.

A lot of local farms have fresh veggies, apples, baked goods and of course pumpkins! Also, check and see if your local farm has any fall family days. On those days they usually have a lot of fun activities, animals, hayrides, corn mazes, pumpkins and if you're lucky they'll have amazing apple cider donuts!

9. Stay in for a cozy movie day.

With Freeform starting their 31 days of Halloween this leads to the perfect excuse for a night on the couch. Pick out your favorite Halloween movie, make some popcorn and have some warm apple cider while cuddling up on the couch.

10. Visit a haunted house.

If you are down for something a little scarier then a Halloween movie, check out a haunted house near yours. It could even be a haunted hayride or haunted corn maze.

11. Take her out to breakfast.

Girls are always down for a cute breakfast date. Especially when you can roll out of beds in your sweats and keep them on in the cozy fall weather.

12. Spend a night carving pumpkins.

Once Halloween rolls around you should grab a cheap carving supplies kit, roll up your sleeves, and carve a cute pumpkin together. Whether you write your initials or create a jack-o-lantern it will probably be full of fun memories of pulling out pumpkin guts.

13. Go to a Halloween party.

Take some time and hit up Pinterest for a super cute couples costume and eat all the candy you possibly can!

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Sure, Condoms Don't Feel As Good As Nothing, But Nothing Feels Better Than Safe Sex

You want to do it, but at least be safe.

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Let's talk about sex.

Condoms are great. I love them. You should too. They reduce the chances of pregnancy and contracting a sexually transmitted infection. When you're doing it with a person you met online or met just recently in person, they're the cheapest form of protection. They're not 100 percent reliable when it comes to minimizing the risk that a sperm fertilizes an egg and that zygote implants itself in your uterus, so I like taking another form of birth control just as a backup. Watch season 1 or 2 of "Weeds" if you want to be spooked a bit.

The academic year has just started, and if you're meeting new people who you want to have sexual relations with, it's important that respect is established. You're letting someone use parts of you for sexual pleasure and vice versa. They're not entitled to those parts, and if someone wants to use a condom, don't argue with them.

It doesn't matter what kind of birth control they have, or how good they are at pulling out. It's scary when accidents happen, and it's scary to see your body changing and not knowing if it's just weight gain or pregnancy, or it it's a heat rash or an infection you may be spreading to others.

I've had potential sexual partners refuse to wear condoms, and I left them because I wasn't going to let them inside of my body because, "the condom was too small." As a woman, I can't leave a pregnancy like guys can, and if given the choice to protect myself from contracting a sexually transmitted infection, I will take it, and I won't let anyone try to make me feel guilty about it.

No one should have to convince someone else for respect, especially when you're participating in an act where so much could happen physically, not to mention emotionally. Most people probably feel the most vulnerable when they're having sex. It might not be the case for all people, but if someone asks to use protection, don't argue with them about it. And if someone refuses to listen to you and respect you, walk away. There are plenty of other people out in the world who will respect you, and you shouldn't have to settle for less when your health can be affected.

When I first started dating an ex and he found out I had an intrauterine device, he immediately started putting together a presentation about why we should stop using condoms. It didn't matter to him when I said I didn't fully trust my IUD or that I was very uncomfortable with not using them. If he decided he didn't want to pull out, and my IUD failed, and I would be the one who got pregnant and had to deal with it, not him. He could choose to be supportive and stay with me through it, or he could block me on all social media platforms and Spotify.

It was a red flag that he didn't respect me, but that made me realize I didn't fully trust him. If he respected me, it wouldn't have been up for debate, and he wouldn't have tried to use my birth control against me to make me think I was being irrational. It's correct that IUD's are effective 99.9 percent of the time, but I didn't want to be the 0.01 percent who experience its failure.

Condoms don't feel the best (yes, girls feel them too), but I prefer using them because I feel safer, especially if I'm engaging in an intimate act with someone whose sexual history I don't know completely.

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