15 Questions you are too afraid to ask your crush.

15 Questions you are too afraid to ask your crush.

These are the questions you would love to know about your potential soulmate. I just wrote them down.
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Raise your hands if you have the guts to interview your crush. Anyone? No? Well, neither do I. But I bet we all have a plethora of questions we would love to know the answers to. Well, there are many types of crushes. There are celebrity crushes and then there are normal people crushes. For the sake of this article, I've chosen one of my crushes that is a mixture of these categories. He is a local celebrity of sorts I had the pleasure of meeting. He is super talented so I know that once he goes to his next destination, he is going to be big news. Before we get into this article, I want to make everyone aware of this little disclaimer. Writers are crazy. Even more important, I am crazy. There is no way I want my crush to know how I feel but the best thing about writing is being able to connect fantasy into reality. It feels great to connect with your audience on a personal level because it reminds us all that we are not alone and feeling these things are normal and apart of what it means to be human. Well, let’s get to the list.

1. What is your favorite color?

This is a question I have asked this person. You have no idea how this has changed my life. Looking at the sky makes me happier now. Every time I see this color, my train of thought goes everywhere but where it should be.

2. What is your favorite food?

Have you ever seen those movies where some rich guy sends his crush truckloads of their favorite foods/things? Yeah if I were rich I would want to do the same but I'm just a tiny college student in the world of adulthood and bills.

3. What is your idea of a perfect date?

Wouldn't you like to know about the important things? I mean, would you not want to know where to go on your first date? I would. I want to know how romantic this individual is.

4. Are you single? Or nah?

Ok... generally I don't care because I'd probably never ask him on a date. Just looking at him makes me feel fluttery. But if he just so happens to be single then... (insert eyeball emoji)

5. When is your birthday?

Well if you are like me, you already know the answer to this question. I find out as much as I can when my crushes first develop... and we happen to be Facebook friends.

6. Do you have any allergies?

Ok, so, let’s just say that in grade school I almost accidentally killed a kid...

7. Wanna hang out?

How sweet would it be to spend a day with your possible soulmate? Personally, I would probably have a heart attack, but I wouldn't mind if I can sit near him.

8. So did you know you are super cute?

There is nothing better than an attractive person with an attractive personality IDC IDC IDC.

9. So did you work on being cute or...?

Like honestly.

10. Have any talents?

Well of course I already know this answer since I've experienced these talents first hand. Excuse me while I fan girl.

11. How do you define love?

Of course, we all don't have the same definition. I personally do not have a single clue what love is. I imagine it is warm when you are cold and smells like fried chicken. I absolutely adore fried chicken. I am interested to know what he thinks.

12. What are your non-career related goals?

I know what his career goals are mostly. I mean if you are in college, you get an idea from their declared major. But I'm more interested in knowing if he wants to get married and get a hypoallergenic doggie and have little versions of him running around. I am interested to know whether he wants to eat tacos every Tuesday or pizza every Friday.

13. What things do you hate?

People have pet peeves. I don't want a deal breaker before I can make a deal.

14. Do you know how I feel about you?

This is one of those dangerous questions. If I knew that he knew how much I absolutely adore him, I might just die. However, I would want to know if he did know just as much as I didn't.

15. Do you like me back?

This is the most dangerous question of them all. This question changes lives. Knowing whether your crush likes you will determine what path your life takes. It would be devastating to find out that your crush thinks that you are a repulsive being. I would crawl under a rock and die if I found out he hated me. On the other hand, If I found out that he liked me even a little tiny bit I would probably have a heart attack and die. What would you do if you found out that your crush likes you?


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The dad bod is a new trend and fraternity boys everywhere seem to be rejoicing. Turns out skipping the gym for a few brews last Thursday after class turned out to be in their favor. While we all love a sculpted guy, there is just something about the dad bod that makes boys seem more human, natural, and attractive. Here are a few reasons that girls are crazy about the dad bod.

It doesn't intimidate us.
Few things are worse than taking a picture in a bathing suit, one being taking a picture in a bathing suit with a guy who is crazy fit. We don't want a guy that makes us feel insecure about our body. We are insecure enough as it is. We don't need a perfectly sculpted guy standing next to us to make us feel worse.

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We like being the pretty one.

We love people saying "they look cute together." But we still like being the center of attention. We want to look skinny and the bigger the guy, the smaller we feel and the better we look next to you in a picture.

Better cuddling.
No one wants to cuddle with a rock. Or Edward Cullen. The end.

Good eats.
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You know what you're getting.
Girls tend to picture their future together with their guys early on. Therefore, if he already has the dad bod going on, we can get used to it before we date him, marry him, have three kids. We know what we are getting into when he's got the same exact body type at the age of 22 that he's going to have at 45.


So there you go. A simple break down of why girls everywhere are going nuts over this body type on males. We like it. We love it. We want some more of it. So here's to you dad bods, keep it up. Men, confidently strut that gut on the beach because while you stare at us in our bikinis we will be staring just as hard.

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If you Don't make Communication a priority, your long-distance relationship is over

This isn't the age of carrier pigeons, the Pony Express and smoke signals and it's time your significant other showed it.

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If you have ever been in a long-distance relationship you know how important it is to spend quality time with your significant other. Unfortunately, due to the fact that your relationship is long-distance, this in-person quality time with each other is so rare. This makes the few times you do get to see each other incredibly special and meaningful as you can make the absolute most of every moment you get to spend with each other.

Nevertheless, no relationship can survive long-distance if you only rely on those few times a year that you get to see each other. Communication is so incredibly important to strengthen and build your relationship and this is something that needs to happen every day, not just once a month, or whenever you are lucky enough to get to actually be with each other.

In today's world, it is relatively easy to find ways to communicate over long-distance. Social media and technology are literally with us everywhere we go, making it so incredibly simple to keep in contact with our friends and significant others no matter the distance.

Honestly, this should go without saying, but you should WANT to talk to your significant other. It should make you happy to send them a good morning or good night text, to SnapChat them something from your day or to call them on your lunch break. And conversely, it should make you sad to consider the distance and how little you get to see each other, causing you to WANT to find other ways to make it through the time apart. Just because you can't be physically in each other's presence does not mean that you cannot still find ways to "be" together.

And if you don't feel sad when you don't communicate on a regular basis, quite honestly, you should really consider whether or not this is the right person for you to be in a relationship with. Are you okay not talking to some of your best friends for long periods of time? What if the person was living in the same place as you? Would it still be acceptable for you to not hear from them or see them for the same period of time?

Inevitably, if you don't hear from your boyfriend or girlfriend for several says at a time, you end up missing out on so much of their life. Without check up texts and calls, what kind of relationship are you really in? Communication shows that you are invested. Communication shows the person that they are loved and that their happiness matters to you. It's that emotional connection and investment that truly builds trust.

So stop making excuses for when you don't hear from your long-distance boyfriend or girlfriend for several days at a time. Yes, you're long-distance, so you have a lot of challenges to overcome to sustain your relationship, but communication is not something that should be lacking. It takes five seconds to send a text message. Scheduling a skype date is the same as scheduling an in-person date, except you don't have to leave your living room. Making communication a priority might seem obvious, but it's also a daily choice that ultimately shows that your significant other is a priority to you.

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