Our generation has practically grown up with cell phones. They started off as a major convenience for communication while there was no access to a landline. Texting was introduced soon after and was another simple way to communicate quickly and efficiently. However, unfortunately for us, cell phones have become our main stream of communication, and much more than a tool solely used for communication.
Today, our cell phones have features like calling, texting and Facetime, along with apps, games, social media outlets, maps, and cameras. All of these additions are super convenient and, to a certain extent, useful. However, a problem arises once people start to rely so heavily on communicating through their technology. They forget how to communicate on a personal level. Lacking basic communication skills is a major problem! Duh. This leads to difficulty in relationships, friendships, jobs, classes, traveling, ordering food and so on to include any other activity that involves interacting with another human being.
I am thankful for the technology we have today and I love having my iPhone, but I have come to realize how negatively my cell phone can affect me if I’m consumed by it. Texting doesn’t replace talking. It is a great tool to use when you are planning to meet up with friends or figuring out what time you're going out for drinks, but having daylong conversations with it is pointless. It takes away from the message you are trying to convey because there is a lack of expression and emotion, and that is something that affects how conversations are understood. This can lead to a lot of miscommunications. So, instead of trying to text every single thing you need to discuss, take a break from the phone and do it in person.
When we are constantly on our cell phones, we tend to forget to live in the moment! Everyone thinks that if they are doing something fun and adventurous, it must be documented. If you’re at a concert, you better make a 200-second Snapchat story so that all of your friends know that you are having a great time. No. Stop.
A post every now and then is fine, but when you spend a majority of your time posting on social media, you're missing out on the world around you. Yes, pictures are nice to have, but the memories you are making are what will last forever. Even on the beach this past week, surrounded by so many interesting objects and the beautiful ocean, I still saw people staring at their cell phones. Cell phone use should be limited and used at appropriate times. It is essential that people appreciate their surroundings without technology.
Almost anywhere you go, you can spot a handful of people on their cell phones. Whether they are taking a picture, texting, talking, using maps, or browsing through social media, their phones are out in their hands. Sometimes, cell phone use is necessary. But, instead of walking to class and staring at your phone so no one thinks you are a loner, put the phone away and look around. Smile at strangers, say hello, and appreciate your surroundings! Next time you’re at a fun event, take one Snapchat and then put the phone away and enjoy yourself! When spending time with others, leave your phone somewhere and engage with the company you have. Don’t try to have important conversations through texting--find a way to meet the person and have a face-to-face talk. Always keep your phone charged, and bring it wherever you go in case of an emergency. But, in all seriousness, the less you use your phone, the more you will experience, and the better you will feel.
