Every family has that one sibling who takes on the role of mom or dad when necessary—not in an authoritative or parental way, but in a protective way. This sibling goes above and beyond the typical sister/brother role and becomes someone that the family can count on to make sure everyone is always safe. We weren't asked to be the protective ones—we just really love our family and are tough enough to care for the ones we love.

1. You earn the labels crazy, mean, or 'that sister.'

It happens to the best of us. Eventually, you get involved in one too many problems and people realize that you stick around until you come out on top of the situation and your sibling is free of all trouble. Others don’t take it well and decide you’re that sister.

2. Younger or older, you look after your siblings as if they were newborns.

I can’t count all the times I’ve had people ask if I’m older than my 21-year-old sister. Whether it’s my face or my constant need to come across as intimidating, I’m not sure. The need to protect my sisters just because they’re my family is constant, even if they give me that “you need to stop immediately” glare.

3. Whether they want you involved or not, you get involved.

It’s not really their choice if you get involved or not; of course you give them some time to try to fix it on their own, but you know when it’s time to bring in the big guns.

4. Even your parents know you have certain problems or situations covered.

Some situations are just too minuscule for parents to get involved with, but not so much that they can just be brushed under the rug. They know they can count on you to handle the things they can't.

5. You look forward to handling certain situations and problems.

Let’s be real—sometimes, it’s fun to put people in their places and remind them who’s boss.

6. People gradually learn to not pick on your siblings.

Eventually, people realize that if they don’t mess with your sibling, you won’t mess with them. Amazing logic.

7. You’ve got enough “thick skin” and “backbone” for all of you put together.

Growing up, you were proudly known as the tough sister by your family—you still are! You’ve got to be the tough one if you plan on supporting your siblings.

8. You get used to taking care of yourself, but you’re honored when your siblings offer their help.

Sometimes life gets to be a bit too much, but that’s not a problem for you, because you’ve got a huge support system waiting to step in.

9. When you get into fights with your siblings, you’re secretly proud when they win.

Every time they win an argument with you, all you can think is “they totally learned that from me!”

10. Because you love them, you put them before you.

You may look tough, but you’re a huge softie when it comes to your sisters/brothers, and you’d do anything to keep them smiling.