I Am Scared Of Expressing My Political Views Because Of My Peers

I Am Scared Of Expressing My Political Views Because Of My Peers

Every vote matters and every voice deserves to be heard, including mine.


I am a female, I am white, and I am a Republican.

I am scared of expressing my beliefs, especially when it is about politics because I am constantly stereotyped by my fellow peers. Republicans are racist, sexist, and love their guns as much as they love 'Merica, but I am neither of those things. Yes, there is a HUGE percentage of Republicans that are all of the above, but we are NOT ALL those things. I am NOT racist, I am NOT sexist, and I love God more than this country or a weapon.

I enjoy hearing both sides of the wave, both red and blue. I am open to debates, casual conversations, and reading up on the most recent articles about candidates - but I hate seeing the slander each side gives to the other.

When election time rolls around... I HATE SOCIAL MEDIA. I hate seeing the negativity and the stereotypes thrown at Republicans. People, who I thought were my friends, will call me names, make me feel stupid, and belittle my beliefs- without hearing why I chose the red side. Every vote matters and every voice should be heard - including mine.

The outcome, of the polls, will not satisfy everyone - not every party can win. Do not make people feel bad about their vote, their choice, or their views. Being cruel to the people who do not side with our favorite party is making people not want to vote at ALL. I know several people who did not vote because they would rather not be involved or think their voice does not matter - it matters! We are voting to choose who we want to run OUR county, OUR state, OUR future!

Voting is a right! U.S. citizens have the right to vote for whoever they please - literally you can write in Mickey Mouse! People would rather not use a basic given right because of the fear - the fear of being harassed. I have experienced the harassment because of who I voted for to be our president. No, Trump is NOT perfect but I voted - and I voted for him. I was shamed for weeks... and still am. It is important to stress the right to vote, but do not force your own personal choice onto the person who is unsure about voting. Suggest research, offer links, and ask questions to help people decide on their OWN what side they lean towards.

I hate how people make me feel because of my political views, I hate how people will not let me express myself on social media, and I hate the way people view me as a whole - rather than an individual. If you are a Republican or a Democrat, then you should be able to freely express your opinions without any form of harassment, fear, or guilt. Every voice should be heard.

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I'm The Girl Who'd Rather Raise A Family Than A Feminist Protest Sign

You raise your protest picket signs and I’ll raise my white picket fence.

Social Media feeds are constantly filled with quotes on women's rights, protests with mobs of women, and an array of cleverly worded picket signs.

Good for them, standing up for their beliefs and opinions. Will I be joining my tight-knit family of the same gender?

Nope, no thank you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be oblivious to my history and the advancements that women have fought to achieve. I am aware that the strides made by many women before me have provided us with voting rights, a voice, equality, and equal pay in the workforce.

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For that, I am deeply thankful. But at this day in age, I know more female managers in the workforce than male. I know more women in business than men. I know more female students in STEM programs than male students. So what’s with all the hype? We are girl bosses, we can run the world, we don’t need to fight the system anymore.

Please stop.

Because it is insulting to the rest of us girls who are okay with being homemakers, wives, or stay-at-home moms. It's dividing our sisterhood, and it needs to stop.

All these protests and strong statements make us feel like now we HAVE to obtain a power position in our career. It's our rightful duty to our sisters. And if we do not, we are a disappointment to the gender and it makes us look weak.

Weak to the point where I feel ashamed to say to a friend “I want to be a stay at home mom someday.” Then have them look at me like I must have been brain-washed by a man because that can be the only explanation. I'm tired of feeling belittled for being a traditionalist.


Because why should I feel bad for wanting to create a comfortable home for my future family, cooking for my husband, being a soccer mom, keeping my house tidy? Because honestly, I cannot wait.

I will have no problem taking my future husband’s last name, and following his lead.

The Bible appoints men to be the head of a family, and for wives to submit to their husbands. (This can be interpreted in so many ways, so don't get your panties in a bunch at the word “submit”). God specifically made women to be gentle and caring, and we should not be afraid to embrace that. God created men to be leaders with the strength to carry the weight of a family.

However, in no way does this mean that the roles cannot be flipped. If you want to take on the responsibility, by all means, you go girl. But for me personally? I'm sensitive, I cry during horror movies, I'm afraid of basements and dark rooms. I, in no way, am strong enough to take on the tasks that men have been appointed to. And I'm okay with that.

So please, let me look forward to baking cookies for bake sales and driving a mom car.

And I'll support you in your endeavors and climb to the top of the corporate ladder. It doesn't matter what side you are on as long as we support each other, because we all need some girl power.

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Dear America, We Can Step Forward As A Country If We Stop Believing That Only One Belief Is Valid

It's time to promote unity and emphasize our commonalities because only through unity can we step forward as a country.


Dear America,

2018 was a year of political strife and conflict. The left and the right fought constantly. Republicans and Democrats blamed each other for the tiniest mistakes, and there were only a small number of successful bipartisan deals. Politicians and citizens alike seemed more concerned with sticking to party platforms, even ones they truly didn't believe in, rather than compromising with the other side to improve our society.Yet all this name-calling and hatred — what does it do in the end? What does it accomplish?

We've only seen an increased polarization of American politics and an expanded hostility towards "the other side." We don't consider the well-being of each and every person in America and the bettering of our society, or the building of a stronger world for our children and grandchildren.

We spend so much time insulting each other's political beliefs that we forget probably the most important fact that links us all together: We are all human. We all share the same basic needs, the same struggles, the same moments of happiness and sadness.

And yet we are willing to put our similarities aside and only focus on our differences. We are willing to thrust ourselves into the deep anger and loathing that comes in attacking those different from us. We are willing to parry insults behind the safety of a phone screen and forget all about what makes us alike. And we are willing to gloss over the fact that we have more similarities than differences.

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Yes, political beliefs make a person. Political beliefs define the values, ideas and thoughts of a person. But sometimes, we have to reach over those beliefs, as hard as that may be, and focus on the bigger picture at hand. What will insulting someone because of those beliefs do? It definitely won't change their views or make them see things from your point of view.

It's sad and frustrating that this endless fighting doesn't even occur between two countries or two governments or two nation-states. Instead, we see arguments and strife between two family members, two neighbors or even two strangers, all living in the same community and under the same government, all sharing more similarities than differences.

We need to stop focusing so much on singular ideas. We need to stop believing in the close-minded idea that only one thought is the best thought. And instead of wasting energy trying to change other's opinions, we need to use that energy and time to promote unity and emphasize our commonalities.

These past few years have truly divided America. Let's make 2019 a year of unity, because only through unity can we step forward as a country.

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