Dear PNMs (Potential New Members)
First off, thank you so much for deciding that you wanted to come out for recruitment. I know recruitment can be a time commitment and I know that every sorority appreciates you taking time out of your life to come to this exciting weekend. This is my first time going through recruitment as a member and I'm really excited and nervous to get the chance to talk to some of you. I know a lot of you might feel nervous about coming out for recruitment, especially if you don't really know a lot about Greek life. I just wanted to tell you a few things about myself, and Greek Life.
I am not going to say which organization I am in, but if you have me on social media, or know who I am then you probably already know. When I went through recruitment, I thought I knew exactly which organization I wanted to be in and that no one could tell me anything different. After the first day when I didn't get the sorority I wanted for Philanthropy day, I was a little upset, but realized it was for the best. I honestly can't picture myself in any other organization. I just wanted to tell you that you should try to keep an open mind, give every organization a chance, and let them get to know you.
Another thing I want to mention is that you should just be yourself. We aren't looking for a certain "type" of girl. There are so many different types of people in each organization which is what makes being a part of Greek Life so much fun. If people are judging you and saying that you aren't the type of girl that can be in a sorority, please do not listen to them. If someone is telling you that you're paying for your friends, please do not listen to that person either. You are paying for an experience. If we didn't have fees, we wouldn't have as many opportunities to do fun things with our sisters and other organizations.
Try to have fun at recruitment, It really is an exciting time. It's been almost a year since I went through recruitment as a PNM and so much has happened between then and now. I have met some amazing people and role models within my chapter and have made some life long friends. Just know that you have made a great decision signing up for recruitment and I can't wait to see where you all end up on bid day.
Sincerely,
An excited sister
