I am not a whore. I wish I can provide a definition, but no one has ever given me a decent definition this terms. Googles definition would be "a prostitute," but I doubt any person who has called me a whore really assumed I could pull that off. I am none of the many labels given to me in college, yet when I revealed the number of people I have had relations with, I was consistently labeled names like whore. I do not believe the label of whore is justified when talking about my sex life. Hypothetically, if it was justified I wouldn't be ashamed of what I have done in the past simply because of the way these things happened. Let me provide you with my personal perspective of sex life and why I never considered myself to be a whore. Hopefully this will open a few peoples eyes and maybe re-define what some people would consider a whore.

Let me first explain the type of environment I grew up in. My first experience with any sexual activity was back in middle school. Around 7th and 8th grade the males at my school were expected to have already lost their virginity. I did not have sex around this time, but I did have my first sexual experience at that age. Honestly, I had no real interest in doing what I did that day but the girls that were involved were persistent. Also, if i turned the offer down, the consequence would have been my own friends questioning my sexuality. Jokingly, of course. but at that young age, I did not want to be the butt of my groups jokes. Around that age, there was a sense of confidence. and it seem like prestige that came with having experience that others did not have. Half days were nicknamed "Booty Tuesday" because it was the perfect opportunity to get some action in. Growing up around my town means sex was not a secret thing. I grew up in that type of environment, and to make it clear, I did not have sex before 9th grade. Where I am from, I started late! I was the kid running around pretending to be Naruto characters and enjoying life with friends. The norm for a male in my area would be to talk to girls and get that action. This is what I grew up around. I was considered a good kid for the limited amount of stuff I did.

When I did start having sex, I had sex with my girlfriend at the time. I am not the type of guy to approach a girl with intentions of just getting into bed. That was never my style. Most of the sexual partners I had in high school were girlfriends with the exception of two. Those two females were good friends of mine before anything happened. I did nothing in high school that I would be consider tendencies of a whore, especially considering the environment I grew up in. Those were chump numbers by the time I graduated from there.

College cam around and I was exposed to more individuals. Still. my actions never resembled one of a whore. The strongest case for me being a "whore" would come from my sophomore year. This is a year I did decide to stay to myself and keep things to a minimum. Tinder was popular around that time, and I ran into a few girls with mutual interest. Let me be clear about tinder. I did not hope on this apps in hope for the booty. My sophomore year was a lonely one. I was in a new building away from freshmen year friends and typically stayed to myself. I did not like my roommate, and I was extremely awkward around the other residence in my building. Even though the other residence in my building would eventually come to accept me ( thank you squad). Sophomore year basically was my loneliest year. Tinder was just a way to talk to people and get to know people. I was aware the app was popular for sex, but not everyone on there was looking to get laid. The girls that I did have sex with from tinder are girls I did give some serious consideration to dating, but most of the time it just didn't work out that way. This was due to the fact I recently got out of a fantastic relationship I had my freshman year. and found it extremely hard to move on. These girls were really amazing people. and we would have connected even without the sex. The rest of college would follow suit. The females I had sex with would be one of two things. Either I am dating them, or I have a really great friendship.

This brings me to my grand point here. Most of my life I have never talked to a girl with the intentions of only having sex. From my perspective, I just fell into a good amount of great situations. From my perspective, I have done nothing that justifies the consideration of me being a whore. What I am is someone who knows how to treat the woman he is in a relationship with, and a man who females can trust with their personal space. I enjoy sex, but it has never been something I have demanded from any female or really searched for. If these are the things that make me a whore, I will proudly be a whore. I'll be a whore with a clean body and quality experience in dealing with women. I am what some people would call a "whore," and this is just my perspective on the matter.