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Perfection Is Simply Not Necessary

Learning to realize that life does not have to be perfect to be a good life.

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Perfection Is Simply Not Necessary
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If you personally know me than you already know that I am a perfectionist. It is a trait of mine that is becoming true more today than ever before. And it is annoying. I am the person who has to have every alphabet letter written perfectly and if they are not then I will erase them and start over. If there is something that I would like to purchase, I try to order it offline so that I know for a fact random people in a store didn’t try it on or touch it. And I am the person who cleans my phone case with a Clorox wipe almost every other day. Yes, I know all of this sounds strange. But it is my life, the life of a perfectionist. However, I have reached a point where I am realizing that life does not have to be perfect to be a good life. The only person that I know of that has walked on this earth and has obtained a perfect life is Jesus. As a human being I realize that I am not perfect and that there is no way I could ever obtain that. But every day I strive to live a good life. Philippians 3:12 tells us, “Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus.” At 20 years of age, I realize more today than before that life will never be exactly how we picture it in our mind. But that’s not always a bad thing. Because I am guilty of wanting everything to be perfect, I think that could be a reason why everything goes south when I try to make my life perfect. Because here’s the kicker, life is not meant to be perfect. If life was perfect then we would not need Jesus. We live in a world where everything and everyone does their own thing. We are expected to live a certain way and obtain a certain lifestyle depending on how we were raised. And it simply causes chaos. But God’s plan for our life will always be better than the plan that we have mapped out in our head. The reason why things do not go like we want them too is not because God does not like our plan but because we are not allowing God to take full control over every single detail of our life. God's plan for our life will always be better. Here lately, I have learned that it is okay if something does not go exactly how I want it too, because I am not meant to be perfect. God is so good and he has a beautiful plan for every single person on this planet. Our goal in life should never be perfection, but to realize that God has a perfect plan for our life. The sooner we realize that perfection is not necessary, the sooner we will achieve happiness.

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