As I sit and think to myself, I nit-pick at the little things I cannot stand about myself, like my thighs are jiggling, my stomach is not flat, my hair is much too dark for summer time. So many more “problems” come to mind, but these are the common complaints among 19-year-old girls. Everyone falls short of the scale of what it is to be perfect and that is because—what is perfect? Having to starve yourself to have no fat on your body? Having long, natural blonde beach curls that bounce when you walk? No. As Hannah Montana stated, “Nobody is Perfect,” and that is true.
Social media has a huge impact in creating the perfect image in what a women should look like: the long legs, the toned butt, the flat stomach, and those perfect round perky boobs. Reality check—most of the photos are edited, and the models are air brushed. Not saying these women are not beautiful (because Adrianna Lima is absolutely gorgeous), but that is not the only definition of beautiful.
1. Confidence is beautiful.
No matter who you are or what shape you are, men and women are attracted to women who are confident in themselves. Square up your shoulders, pick up your chin, and make eye contact. These three tips could help attract anyone whether it be a friend, lover, or even a prospective employer.
2. Pale is beautiful.
Tan is the “in” when it's summer. Some of us look like that golden goddess. Some of us get sunburned and freckled. If you get sunburned and freckled, it's not the end of the world. It is still beautiful. Put on a flannel and some red lipstick, and you could outshine anyone. It’s rare to be fair nowadays, so embrace it.
3. Curves are beautiful.
You don’t have to be 5’ 7’’ and 122 pounds, with everything toned and in place to be beautiful. If you have weight on you, theres nothing to complain about. Just keep a healthy mind. Put on your bikini, stand in the mirror, and take a look at yourself. You are beautiful! Its easier said than done to feel beautiful, especially when you are having a bad day, but you are you, and no one can take away from that.
4. Smiles are beautiful.
People are attracted to happiness and smiles. Some people light up the room when they smile. Don’t walk around with the so-called resting bitch face (even though a lot of the time that's our natural face). Put a smile on. Its easier for men and other women to approach you if you seem warm. Also smiling for 30 seconds can increase your mood by tons.
5. Mind over matter.
Your body is not the only thing that can be beautiful. Your mind, your thoughts, and your personality are what make you who you are. A pretty face means nothing if the personality doesn't exist. You have so much to offer with your experience. Talk about things you’ve done or your dreams and aspirations. Interesting people are the best kind of people.
