I don't get why people judge people's lives so much.
You go through hard stuff and your heart tells you to fix everything but everyone around you tells you not to. They tell you to just live your life but you know what you want. If you feel like you know what you want, then go after it - don't listen to what anyone else has to say about it because it's your life and you need to do things that make you happy, not what everyone else thinks you should do.
Whether you are having a hard time with a relationship or if your parents are trying to control your life, don't let them. It all depends on you and what you believe in, nobody else can make you happy the way you do or the way you can. If you think it's going to make you happy then go for it.
I've been judged on my relationship issues, the type of car I'll have next, and even my future career. Everyone is telling me to do one thing but my heart tells me something else. I've realized that I need to do things that make me happy and fight for what I believe in and nobody can take that from me.
You can't let what people say get to you. It is your life and if it makes you happy then that is all that matters. Who cares what people think, it's not their life. They can do whatever makes them happy but you shouldn't worry about it and make yourself happy.
Don't listen to anyone else, just listen to what your heart says and you will find all the answers you need.