That you're unintelligent
A lot of people have this schema of loud outgoing females. You see a girl with a big personality who talks at (granted) a rather high decibel and often you assume that she is "ditsy" or unintelligent. That notion is a fallacy. I like to talk, trust me I am aware of that fact. That does not mean, however, that I am not also aware of many other facts or that I am incapable of an intelligent debate or discussion.
That you need attention
I found this explination of extroverts and introverts:
So yes, while I may draw my energy from the outer world and interpersonal relationships, that does not mean i am intrapersonally inept or that I need others to define my happiness. I love talking with others and hearing about their days or experiences. I believe I can learn more about the world by experiencing secondhand the views that other people hold. So yes, as this chart says, I value a breadth of experience. That does not mean I don't see the value of myself without another or that I am in need of attention, that again is a fallacy.
Everyone assumes you're flirting.
I come on 110% be you male, female, a cute kitty at a party, or a stranger at the grocery. Just because I come on strong does not mean I am coming onto you. While I can initiate a conversation with you or can carry on a conversation with you for a while that does not mean I want to marry you. Although I would for sure put a ring on this kitty:
When People assume since you're always happy so that you are therefore immune to getting your feelings hurt.
Just because you haven't really seen me get sad does not mean I am incapable of that. Nor does that give you an excuse to say things to me you wouldn't usually say to others, just because you assume I'll keep smiling. You know what they say about people who assume... (if you dont google it haha). You should also know what the golden rule is, cause I feel like a lot of people have forgotten that pre-k lesson.
Some think you're really annoying.I'm a lot and I know that. Like I said earlier, 110%. But it's better to be 110% what makes you happy than 80% what makes you happy just to please others.
You're just too awesomeI honestly love being an extrovert, and being able to walk in a room alone and socialize and meet new people and make new friends. I am proud of the fact that I have my own voice and can speak for myself or others who cant do the same. I feel confident that I could move somewhere where I knew no one and I would get along just fine. While I may be a lot sometimes, I'm myself all the time and I have no problem with that.
