To my, not-so-little, little brother,
I remember when we were young, we were inseparable. The term “two peas in a pod” was based on the relationship we shared; whatever I did, you mimicked (which got you in trouble at times… sorry about that). You were my little shadow that I couldn’t quite shake. However, as the years went by we became more and more distant. I was a girl who would rather hang out with her girlfriends, than her little brother, and you were a boy who enjoyed playing video games and keeping to himself. At the time I didn’t really see an issue with the dynamic of our damaged relationship, but all these years later I wish I would have known then what I know now.
You see, now I understand just how quickly time escapes us, and I also understand how quickly things can change. I know now that the reason you kept to yourself so often then was because you were struggling to find your place in this world, and instead of helping guide you on that journey, I was more concerned with what my friends had planned for the weekend. I know now that instead of making fun of you for being sensitive, I should have comforted you and figured out what you were upset about. I know now that I should have been a better sister to you. Unfortunately, I cannot turn back time, but what I can do is let you know now how thankful I am to have you as my little brother, and how proud I am of the wonderful man you’re now becoming.
I have been so blessed to have had the opportunity to watch you develop into the man you are today. A man who values hard work, and practices what he preaches. A man who has a tough exterior, but a gentle, loving heart. A man who does all that he can for his family, regardless of how it may affect him. A man who is finding his place in this big world, and will stop at nothing until he gets there. It has been a privilege watching you become your own person, rather than my little shadow, and I cannot wait to see what else God has planned for you.
You will do great things, little brother.
Love always,
Your big sister
