I remember when I first got my acceptance letter. I was in my last lecture for the day and was checking my email when I should’ve been taking notes. I read the first line and I couldn’t contain my happiness. I was going to impact someone’s life and I was excited.
I remember my first-floor meeting. I practiced in front of the mirror at least 20 times and rehearsed it to my parents every time they called, to a point where they knew the policies better than me.
I was scared, I didn’t know if you’d like me. I didn’t know if I would come off to strong (we scorpios struggle), but looking at all of your faces in that first-floor meeting, I knew in that moment I would put everything I had in me to being your companion, mentor, and more importantly, a friend.
But that was nothing in comparison to what you all have given me. Being your RA not only gives me a sense of satisfaction, but also builds my self-confidence. When you turned to me with your questions and concerns, I felt proud knowing I could give you the resources and help you needed to conquer. I felt loved when you sent me Christmas cards or slipped motivational notes under my door.
And more importantly, on my toughest of days, you gave me the encouragement I needed. Slowly, we built a relationship that was not forced, but genuine. When you shared your problems with me, I treated them like they were problems. Helping you navigate through tough choices taught me about the power I hold within. Seeing you around on campus made me feel warm on the inside, it felt like I had someone that I could call my own.
As a part of my training, I took a class on how to be an RA, but what they don’t tell you is that some of the people on your floor will become your friends for life. They will go out of their way to get to know you, understand you, and accept you. They teach you how to tackle every situation, but never teach you how to say goodbye when the year comes to end.
Thank you for filling my days with laughter, encouragement, and love. If I can give to you even half of what you’ve given me, I would have done my job well. Being your RA was by far the best decision I’ve made in college.
Thank you for being the reason I wake up every day and cherish being an RA.
