Hey little sisters,
I've watched you grow over the past years into the absolutely beautiful, slightly dysfunctional human beings you are today. I'm proud to say I've been by your sides through all the temper tantrums, pointless brawls over who gets to be what character in our play station marathons, fights over which T.V. show was going to be watched next, and even the screaming matches of who wore each others' clothes the night before. Through all of the ups and downs, I just want you to know that I've been watching you, silently protecting and supporting who you have grown to be.
Being the oldest sibling comes with a lot of responsibility, which undoubtedly came across as me simply bossing you around at times. Even though I never admit this enough, this tough love stemmed from my overwhelming desire to protect and guide you. The last thing I ever want is to see you hurt. Although we do not always see eye to eye, I'm proud of you for standing your ground with me and fighting for what you believe in. I'm definitely stubborn, but you guys continuously prove to be even more stubborn. Never back down and lose this strong-willed nature; always fight and advocate for yourself no matter what the situation may be. I'm not worried, though, because you are so strong.
As cliché as it may sound, I have had experiences that affect the advice and guidance I give you. You may not understand my reasoning at all times, but thank you for listening to me and letting me give you my two cents. I know that there is going to come a time in your lives when you decide to venture away from my advice, and that is completely okay. You need to follow your own hearts, make your own mistakes, and learn your own lessons just as I am doing. Just know, I am always going to be waiting for you to come back to me, so I can support you and help you any way that I possibly can. I will always love you unconditionally, and there's no getting rid of my nagging or constant need for updates on your life. I'm always here for you no matter what. You're stuck with me forever.
Thank you for always being my partners in crime and helping me through whatever may be going on in my own life. Although you are younger than me, you have taught me big life lessons and showed me the importance of the bond between siblings. Thank you for lifting me up when I fall down and always knowing how to brighten my mood. I know that I'll have you guys by my side forever, which comforts me even on the toughest of days. Through every bump in the road, you have stood by my side and pushed me to be better. For this, I will always thank you.
Leaving you guys for college has proven to be one of the hardest things I have ever done. Even though I am hours and miles away, I still find myself missing our crazy adventures and times where my side aches from laughing so hard at the nonsense we come up with. I often find myself missing the simpler days when we just played Band Hero, rode our bikes to the pool, or even picnicked in the backyard. Although we are getting older and going our separate ways, nothing is ever going to change the bond between us. Watching you grow up is both hard and gratifying at the same time, but I am beyond proud of you. We may see each other less now, but I still think about you every day.
All I want for you guys is to follow your hearts and be happy in the life that you are living. Always be confident in who you are and what you want. Do something everyday that puts you on the path to where you want to be, and always remember that you can accomplish anything. Laugh at yourself more, accept the things you cannot change, and follow your unique passions that make you who you are.The world may be tough, but you are tougher. At the end of the day, don't forget that I am always in your corner, ready to fight for you and give you anything you may need.
I'll always just get you, and you'll always just get me. You're always going to be my favorite pains in the butt, little sisters. I'm counting down the days until I can annoy and laugh with you once again.
xoxoxo,
Your Favorite (Only) Older Sister
