Flying can be a scary thing if you're a first-time flyer. I know I was scared the first time I boarded an airplane. I was much younger at the time and I was flying all the way across the country to California. However, I am currently writing this while sitting on an airplane flying back to California, so I guess you could say I got over my fear.
Fear is a totally rational emotion that everyone feels, and no one should feel ashamed for being scared. It's the not knowing that I think scares people the most, so here are a few things to remember when flying to help get you prepared a little bit more.
1. Get to the airport an hour early.
There are a lot of things that need to get done before you step foot on that airplane. There's baggage check, security, finding your gate. All these things take time - time that you need to make sure you have.
2. Security sucks.
The line for security is going to be long, filled with a bunch of grumpy people who just want to go on with their days. Be prepared for random pat downs to make sure you don't have any prohibited materials.
3. Suitcases can't weigh more than 50 pounds.
The suitcases you plan on having in the under carriage of the plane cannot weigh more than 50 pounds. If they do, you have to pay extra. Be sure that if you are going on vacation, you leave room for any souvenirs you may bring home.
4. Check the gate multiple times.
The gate for your flight can change, so be sure to keep checking to make sure you are at the gate. The last thing you want is to miss your flight.
5. Don't wear jewelry.
Whatever you do, do not wear a ton of jewelry. Unless you are on a business trip and are meeting your clients right off the plane, keep it casual. You have to take off all the jewelry for security anyway so just do yourself and all the people there a favor and don't wear it.
6. Dress comfortably.
Again unless you have to dress up for business just keep it comfy. I am currently wearing sweat pants and a t-shirt with my sneakers. Don't be like Victoria Beckham who shows up at the airport looking like she's ready to walk down the red carpet.
7. Bring your ID.
Your ID is VERY important. You can not get on a plane without it. Hell, you can't get past security without it.
8. Take off and landing are the scariest parts
The take off is what used to scare me the most about the flight. The sudden change in speed might make you jump like it did for me, but trust me once you are in the air it doesn't even feel like you are moving. Depending on the pilot landing can either be very smooth or can be quite bumpy. You just need to remember that everything is okay.
9. Some turbulence is normal
Turbulence is normal. Don't expect the plane is going down with every little bump you feel. Once again, everything is okay.
10. You are only allowed one carry on item
Most airlines will allow one carry on item, such as a backpack, and one personal item, like a purse. I always use my volleyball backpack because it is small enough to not take up a lot of space, but it still allows me to bring my laptop and any sort of entertainment that I want. Remember that airlines have certain restrictions on how big the carry on can be so make sure to read the regulations before packing for your trip.
11. Finally, bring entertainment
Flying can be quite boring, especially if you are flying for hours on end. Make sure to bring books, or movies to watch on a laptop. Doing this will make the flight go by much faster.
Once you get over the initial scare of flying, it can be quite enjoyable. You could meet some very interesting people on the plane, and who knows maybe some day you'll be someone who loves flying.
