To My Step parents,

I never wanted my parents to get divorced just as any normal child. Their divorce brought sadness and change and many hard times. Growing up I had to worry about which house I was staying at that week and remember to pack anything that I needed. The other kids at school all knew but would never talk about it in front of me, when really all I wanted was someone to talk about it. I was in a school group called "Banana Splits" where we were constantly told that the divorce wasn't our fault making us constantly question if it actually was. There was so much chaos going on in my life when you came into it and I want to thank you for staying.

I remember a time when my parents would come home from work and try their best to put on a happy, smiling face but still reveal their sadness. You helped them bring back that real smile and contagious happiness that they were missing. You gave them the joy and love that they needed to rediscover. Thank you for making my parents happy again.

I remember a time when I didn't like you. Not because of who you were, but because of who you weren't: my parents. It's hard for kids to see their parents with other people, which is why they aren't always the nicest. I may or may not have watched "The Parent Trap" one too many times and thought that I could pull off the same scheme. Thank you for sticking it out through my rebellious days.

I remember a time when hanging out with your family was weird and I didn't know what to say. However they accepted my sisters and I so quickly and I'll forever be grateful for that. I always looked forward to holidays with all of my family, because I now consider your family, my family. The number of connections I have made since our families have blended is tremendous. Thank you for sharing the people in your life with us.

I remember a time when neither of my parents would answer their phones, so I called you. Now I sometimes call you before I call them. Whether I was sick at school, or needed a ride, or even just wanted someone to talk to, you're there for me whenever I need for whatever I need. Thank you for always being there and for accepting me.

I know I don't say it enough, but I am so incredibly thankful for all that you have done for me and my family. You've accepted me and my sisters as your own even when you didn't have to. I'm sure some days we drive you up a wall and give you grey hair (even if you're bald), but you still choose to stay.

With you in my life I have four parents.

Four people to help me learn, grow and live my life to the fullest.

Thank you for all you do.

I love you.