Dear Mom,
Although this might come to a surprise to most who don't see past a stereotype, you have been the best thing my dad has placed in my life. Calling you my stepmom is almost insulting. I wanted to write you this letter because it is the only way I know how to express what I feel.
First, Thank you so much for putting up with my dad for so many years…18 years to be exact. I know there has been many ups and downs, but he truly is a wonderful man. I know he is one of the most hard headed individuals to walk into your life, but his heart is kind. Sometimes it may seem like that spark has gone, but know that no matter your choices I will be there. The joy you have brought to my dads life is something that I will always be grateful to you for. The children you have raised have this unbreakable love for you. Don't ever give up on love. Please don't ever forget that.
Second, the work that you have put into being there for me is something that I admired and wanted. Whenever I broke down, you were there. When I doubted myself, you were there. When a dumb boy threw me off my course, you were there with an iron fist to set me back on it. We fought and we cried, but I always loved you. I saw something in you something that I always wanted. Someone to be that role model and tell me everything is going to be okay. You have always pushed me to think bigger than my confidence allowed me. Also, thank you for always being respectful to my biological mom and pushing me to reunite.
Thirdly, the urge to explore that I see in you is something I hope never dies. Don't doubt your ability and what you can accomplish. You have gotten so far and you can go so much further. Do what makes you happy and what brings joy into your life. Life is hard and you have taught me that, but don't let that be the reason you don't push harder. Overall you have been a gift to me. I don't want you to give up on your dreams and hopes because it is too late. It is only too late if you let it be.
Lastly, I know that sometimes my interests do not go with yours. Sometimes what I believe isn't the same as you but you have taught me to not give up on what I believe. I know my ideas sometimes seem crazy and hippie but thank you for always allowing me to be myself. Our relationship has evolved so much and I hope you never forget that I care about you not only as my dad's wife, but as my mom. Without you, I don't know where I would be today.
Because of you I will not fall.
Forever and Always,
Your Daughter
