This is an open letter to the guys that didn’t want a girlfriend.
I’m sorry you were too naïve to see what was right in front of you. I don’t hate you I never will. However, I will never understand when you say it's not the right time. I get that you have dreams and it's college but who says a girl has to stop you from that, man. Whose to say that you would have to give up anything. Newsflash, I want a guy with goals. But right now you are so focused on the night. Whose right in front of you and any thought of the future makes you want to run.
You’ve been hurt I see through you. I’ve been hurt too. We all have. But I was the girl that stuck around. After all as they say, you have to find the right person to get hurt over, and I guess that wasn’t me for you. But for me I was willing to risk it, and I did get hurt.
Maybe one day you’ll find someone who will satisfy you for longer than I could, but until that time, I hope you learn a lot. I hope you learn that you never defined me. I may have put a lot into us but I didn’t need you, I wanted you. I hope you learn that someone who truly cares for you isn’t going to make you give anything up.
You see, your real problem here is that you are so wrapped up in yourself that you could never love another person as much as they love you. I get that you have needs but pretending for the night that things could go somewhere isn’t right. You see that’s where I’m better than you, I could never hurt someone as much as you hurt me. Heck I’m like that in my everyday life. you knew that and warned me to not let people take advantage of that, I should have known. No matter what I can never treat someone how they treat me some people may say it’s a bad quality like you, however I love it, it means I love with everything I have. Something you do not do. I’d rather have loved than to never have loved at all.
Thanks for making me see how much I’m worth. Thank you for showing me that if someone really wants to be with you they will. Thank you for being just another guy that I could kick to the curb. Because one day someone is going to be ready and when you realize that you are it’ll be too late because I’m not the girl who waits for anyone. You either want me or you can walk out the door.
