In a relationship, there is one feature that speaks louder than words.
I feel, any new relationship especially the ones that work out have an initial six-month honeymoon period. During this time, we feel like we’ve taken a shot of positive energy. There is this gush of endorphins running through our bloodstream and everything around us feels amazing, crisp and picture perfect.
Just like the beautiful fall season that brings in hope and positivism.
During this amazing phase, one beautiful feature that is expressing our deepest emotions soundlessly are the twinkling eyes… just like a mirror, eyes tell the tales of our life, they keep the deepest secrets yet remain poise.
I feel many times, we hold ourselves back from saying certain things, waiting for that right time and sometimes while waiting we miss out on saying so many wonderful things but our eyes are silently relaying all those emotions to our significant other.
On a deeper level, we are more responsive to our eyes. In any relationship, before approaching an attractive personality we begin gazing at that person, a few seconds later there is a reciprocation and they feel compelled to gaze back at us.
Usually, once there is an eye-to-eye lock, our body language changes and unknowingly we are already engaged in this soundless communication. Sometimes I feel based on the type of gazing we can already determine if this lust or love.
There are people who work at classified organizations, that are experts in understanding the communication of eyes. And yes, there are scientific studies that explain lots more about this feature.
As for myself, I find this extremely intriguing how this one feature communicates so much more than words. I believe that the eyes are the windows to our soul, we can tell so much about a person when looking deep into their eyes. I don’t think any words can truly define the character of the beauty of this expressive feature.