In the midst of an incredibly divisive election season, we need to remember what holds us together.

For one, we can all agree we want the election to be OVER. It will be, in just one more day (not that I’m counting or anything).

Regardless of the outcome, this particular election has driven a wedge between close friends and family members. Every issue is emotionally charged and intensely personal.

It is essential that we remember what holds us together before everyone is torn apart.

At the very least, for those of us who identify as Christians, a mutual love of Christ should be unifying. Martin Luther King Junior once famously said, “Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend.” Love is at the core of Christianity. It is how we, as sinners and powerless enemies of the Lord, have been reconciled into His family.

Our world is clearly fallen and no one is capable of having all the right answers on this side of heaven. This is not to say that we shouldn’t try to discern the right and wrong in our culture. The Christian perspective is essential. However, the arrogance to think you have all the right answers is damaging both to your own understanding and to your relationships.

Many of the political discussions I have been involved in this semester have quickly turned hostile. Listening seems to be a lost art and harsh words spoken out of spite will continue to sting for years to come.

Don’t assume everyone agrees with you. As tensions rise across the nation these next few days, remember that the people you are nonchalantly attacking can hear you. Be cautious of letting your anger cloud your judgment. You want to be part of a radical movement? Love your enemies. Pray for those who persecute you. The hurt of this election runs deep and hate is strategically tearing apart our communities. Don’t let it.