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7 Things You Know If You're The Oldest Child

It's a mixed blessing.

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7 Things You Know If You're The Oldest Child

Unlike what most people think, being the oldest child doesn't suck... that much. If you can get through those rough middle and high school years of your life -- when parents scold you for things your younger siblings did -- you'll be just fine.

1. Your parents were literally only strict with you.

When I was in high school, I had an 11 p.m. curfew... and after I got into college. Now, my little sister can stay out past that and it's no problem. Smh.

2. You were your siblings' personal chauffeur.

Turning 16 and getting your license was probably the highlight of your year, until you realized getting your license only meant driving your siblings to school and soccer practice.

3. You have a high annoyance and frustration tolerance.

More often than not, siblings get on each others' nerves. It's inevitable. As the oldest child, you're at the center of it all. Your little sister keeps stealing your clothes? Deal. Your younger brother won't stop shooting Nerf bullets at you? Deal.

4. Life isn't fair.

When my younger siblings got Razor scooters before I did... what?


But in all seriousness, we did also learn some useful life lessons:


5. Being a leader

Growing up, I learned that younger siblings really do look up to you. It may not be clear at first, but if you really look, you'll see it. There will be days where I hear my younger brother open his mouth and give my parents attitude exactly like I did (sorry, mom).

6. Responsibility


This is a blessing and a curse. As the oldest child, you're expected to look after your siblings. You learn not only how to take care of yourself, but others around you. We take on a lot of responsibility, but we mature and grow from it as well.


7. Being protective

Family will always be family, and if someone tries to come in the way, older siblings will get protective. Only I can punch my brother if he annoys me. Only I can call my sister names when she's annoying.

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