To My Older Sister, Now That I'm An Adult I Want To Thank You For Inspiring Me

To My Older Sister, Now That I'm An Adult I Want To Thank You For Inspiring Me

My favorite but only sister.
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Sissy,

Firstly I would like to say thank you for being my first friend. Even though you're 9 years older than me, I still consider you my first best friend. It only seems like yesterday you were in high school getting ready for the football games while I sat back and wanted to join you. Now, 10 years later, we're both adults and you have blessed me with an amazing little girl I get to call my niece.

There are so many memories that will stick with me throughout my life that we've experienced together. From our dance parties to our Vines that we would make in the summer. I'll always hold those close to my heart. It's crazy to think that here we are so much older.

You just bought your first house and had your first child. And I just graduated high school and am now in my first year of college. Don't get me wrong, as much as I hated having you live with me for so long, I do miss it sometimes.

You have taught me many things throughout life, and I'm very thankful for that. In all honesty, it kind of sucked being 9 years apart because that really is a huge age gap, but we somehow had a bond that was unbreakable, and we still do. I also would like to thank you for being born first because Mom was a lot more strict with you than she was with me... so thanks for taking one for the team!

Now, that we're older, we don't see each other as much anymore. But you kind of did get lucky though since I decided to go to college where you live. But all in all, thank you for being my big sister. I know I can tell you anything because you won't judge me.

Thank you for inspiring me and always making sure I'm doing good. Thank you for making me the strong person I am today. I don't know how I could've lived without you these past 19 years of my life.

I love you so much big sissy... see you soon,

Your little sissy

Cover Image Credit: Lexi Schroeder

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There's a huge difference between being modest while breastfeeding and just being straight up careless, trashy and disrespectful to those around you. Why don't you try popping out a boob without a baby attached to it and see how long it takes for you to get arrested for public indecency? Strange how that works, right?

So many people talking about it bring up the point of how we shouldn't "sexualize" breastfeeding and seeing a woman's breasts while doing so. Actually, all of these people are missing the point. It's not sexual, it's just purely immodest and disrespectful.

If you see a girl in a shirt cut too low, you call her a slut. If you see a celebrity post a nude photo, you call them immodest and a terrible role model. What makes you think that pulling out a breast in the middle of public is different, regardless of what you're doing with it?

If I'm eating in a restaurant, I would be disgusted if the person at the table next to me had their bare feet out while they were eating. It's just not appropriate. Neither is pulling out your breast for the entire general public to see.

Nobody asked you to put a blanket over your kid's head to feed them. Nobody asked you to go feed them in a dirty bathroom. But you don't need to basically be topless to feed your kid. Growing up, I watched my mom feed my younger siblings in public. She never shied away from it, but the way she did it was always tasteful and never drew attention. She would cover herself up while doing it. She would make sure that nothing inappropriate could be seen. She was lowkey about it.

Mindblowing, right? Wait, you can actually breastfeed in public and not have to show everyone what you're doing? What a revolutionary idea!

There is nothing wrong with feeding your baby. It's something you need to do, it's a part of life. But there is definitely something wrong with thinking it's fine to expose yourself to the entire world while doing it. Nobody wants to see it. Nobody cares if you're feeding your kid. Nobody cares if you're trying to make some sort of weird "feminist" statement by showing them your boobs.

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For The Younger Siblings At Home While I'm At College, Know This

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I know you won't believe it, but I actually do miss you.

After spending most of my life being your role model, your confidant, and your friend, it's difficult for me to accept that you are growing up without me there to see it. You're maturing physically, mentally, and emotionally. You're changing from a little, pudgy baby to a young adult way too quickly! It's odd to think that at one point I was taller than you, that I was the big sibling in charge at home, and that your biggest worries used to be finding the right stuffed animal to sleep with.

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Even though I'm far away, I want you to know that I always have you on my mind. I wonder if you ever figured out those math problems or if you have any new crushes. I see memes and videos that make me laugh too hard and I immediately think you'd like it. I worry about if you're making good choices and if you're putting in enough effort so you can have another accomplishment under your belt. I hope you know that I will always worry over you, and just because I'm away right now doesn't mean I stopped caring about you.

I want you to know that you are perfect the way you are. I'm not saying that because I have to, I'm saying it because I truly mean it. You are stunning and incredible, amazing inside and out! There are going to be times that you see others and wish you looked like them when you look in the mirror and believe you see flaw after flaw. There will be times when you wish you could change some aspect of your personality. When those moments come, give yourself a minute to take a deep breath and think of all the things you love about yourself, to think of all the things that you are proud of. You are worth so much more than you realize and you make me so incredibly proud every day- you aren't worth less than anyone else, and you better start believing it!

You may be a pain in my ass, but I wouldn't trade you for anything in the world. We may fight and disagree sometimes, but at the end of the day you are my go-to, my ride or die. I'm proud to say that I'm your older sibling, that I'm related to a star like you.

I love you with my whole heart!

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