Every Obsessive Planner Has Done These 5 Things Obsessively

Every Obsessive Planner Has Done These 5 Things Obsessively

2. CEP (Chronic Earliness Problem).

Do you like to plan ahead? Does spontaneity stress you out? Here are some things that you will totally understand and connect with.

1. List-making.

Lists are an important part of your daily routine. In fact, you cannot imagine accomplishing anything without first making a list of the things you will need to accomplish. The very act of crossing items off the list is deeply satisfying and therapeutic. There are lists for the grocery store, lists of homework items, and even lists of TV shows to binge watch. Sometimes it's just fun to make the lists and consider how they will eventually be completed. Other times there are lists that need to be completed immediately. Regardless, it is clear that you are obsessed with list-making and all their planning potential.

2. CEP (Chronic Earliness Problem).

Do you find yourself showing up for class or work ridiculously early on a regular basis? You are the first person there, but that's totally okay with you. The concept of being late stresses you out so much that you would rather be early so as not to throw off your regular plan of events. This concept also works in reverse in regards to those who have a chronic lateness problem. Those individuals stress you out because they do not have respect for your schedule or time. You had had a plan and their lateness disrupted it.

3. Have a planner/calendar.

Your planner or calendar is constantly filled with each and every event and item that needs to be done for the next week, month or year. This planner is your life and you would be completely lost without it. In fact, buying your planner every year is a special moment because you consider all of the amazing memories that you will share with this calendar as you fill in the planned events for your year.

4. Hatred of the unexpected.

You hate anything that is unplanned or unexpected. It stresses you out when your plans go awry and you have to improvise. This causes you to panic and suddenly you don't know how to go on with your day. Your stability in life is shaken and you don't know where you stand. This can come from something as small as hitting a red light on the way to work that you usually always make. Even the slightest disturbance in your schedule causes anxiety.

5. Organization.

You appreciate it when everything in your life is organized. Disorder is stressful. Whether this be the organization of your room or apartment or organization in your schedule, both are extremely important to you to be successful in your life.

Planning keeps your life structured and gives you a sense of control. Just doing these small things in your life gives you satisfaction and purpose.

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When You Make A Girl An Aunt, You Change Her World In All The Best Ways

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.


My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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