There have been many times in my life where I just thought I was stuck. I had to be where I was; I had to do this job; I had to be friends with these people. For whatever reason I didn’t think it was okay to make so many changes in my life in such a little time, nor did I think it was okay to want to make a change and most days I didn’t know how or where to begin. But now every day as I get older, I am realizing that if you do not love every single moment of your life, you need to change something because it is your life and you deserve nothing but happiness.

Sadly, change can be such a scary thing, but it can be the ultimate reward. We tend to do things to make other people happy and in that moment, we forgot to do what makes us happy. We need to see that no one will put us first but ourselves and when putting ourselves first we need to see how important not only our physical health is, but our mental health. This means deleting anything from our lives that cause us sadness, anxiety, or anger.

Please know, it is OK to be selfish and do things that only give your life positive outcomes-- it is OK to put yourself first-- it is OK to make a change.

We need to remember that it is possible to do things in our lives that we love and that make us happy every single day. Starting a change won't always be easy and it may hurt if it is something major but in the end, it can change your life and open doors that you never thought was there. Even if you think you cannot let someone go, it might take time but if it helps keep you safe and happy, you need to let him or her go. Same goes for a job. I hear everyone talk about money and yes, money is important and being able to support yourself is important but it is also important to love what you do or at least be able to wake up every morning and not be mad because you have to go work this job.

Be obsessed with every minute of your life~ love every moment.