Not New Years But It's Never Too Late

Not New Years But It's Never Too Late


Over the past year I have felt so out of character, when i say this it goes both ways with good and bad. I feel like coming into college has made me realize a lot of things I used to struggle with. I know it’s not the New Year, which is when yearly reflection usually takes place but lately I've been thinking about all the positive things in my life. I've come to the realization that deep diving into my thoughts wasn't always a good thing. I tend to overthink everything I do, even when it might be a simple thing. So here I am writing this, I felt that it's appropriate to take my own time and reflect on some things I’ve learned over the past year about myself. Most of the things I’ve learned I have known for some time but they have been re invented in my life over the past year.

Starting off with needing my alone time. In college, I am constantly surrounded by other people. At first, it seemed like the greatest thing because I was never alone. Although it's nice to be around people , being alone really helps you endure the person you are really meant to be. I have realized that I am the type of person that gains energy from alone time - it helps me rejuvenate. My alone time in college usually consists of trips to the library to tackle some homework or to workout at the gym. Alone time is crucial and keeps you sane. Not only this but realizing that I ultimately come before others. I have always spent my time caring for people who don't deserve for me to waste my energy on them. I know that sounds harsh but there are some people that you have to cut out of your life because they are toxic to your mental being. Although I felt that it was always me first it was never really like that. But it's nice to be this young and realize that people come and go for reasons and you have to learn to be okay with the change it's just that plain and simple. I have to do what's best for me rather than what's best for others. Besides putting other first I have always made school important. School is not easy so if ever turn you down for anything don't take it the wrong way I just need to get my stuff done because after all I'm here to get an education.

One of the most important things I learned about myself is that I'm not like the other girls I thank my parents for this one. They always taught me to be true to myself and be who I am. I'll tell you this, I am such a weirdo and totally proud. I'm quite high maintenance (not in a bad way though), when i say that I mean that I rather do and say what I truly believe defines me as a person. I have never felt the need that I have to kiss up to anyone because where is that really going to get me?. I would rather be different and do things that no one else does instead of being a follower. Besides that I have learned that I'm happy being alone, in single manner. I really hate when people stress over not being in a romantic relationship. I understand not everyone thinks the same but I think it's important to first be okay with yourself before rushing into anything, because at the end of the day if you can't be happy with yourself how are you going to be happy with somebody else?.

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10 Signs You Might Be A Clinomaniac

It's not as crazy as it seems.

Since my concussion last month, my doctor prescribed me ample bed rest and sleep. I am normally the type of person that goes to bed late and wakes up early excited to get all things done and have a newly productive day. Because I take my recovery very seriously, I knew I had to put my usual uppity attitude and work ethic to rest (no pun intended). As of this January, I have actually been following my doctor's advice and taken sleep seriously...maybe a little too seriously. In addition to recovering from my concussion, I have also dreamt up a new idea that I have fallen in love with. In getting all of my necessary sleep, I have found it more and more difficult to leave the unrelenting comfort of my bed. I never realized just how comfortably satisfying staying in bed can be. From springing out of bed before my alarm went off to now hitting the snooze for as long as I can just to lay there, I think I might be developing clinomania.

"Clinomania" has Greek origins, " clino -" meaning bed and "-mania" meaning obsession. It literally translates into an obsession of bed . But what does it really mean to be a clinomania ? Here are 10 signs you might be one:

1. When someone asks you what your hobby is and your reply is "sleeping."

2. As soon as you wake up, all you want to do is crawl back into bed.

3. Your perfect date is in bed snuggled up in a comforter.

4. The thought of leaving bed is as daunting as leaving the womb.

5. You would rather be asleep than doing anything else, including eating.

6. The best part of your day is when you get to reunite with your bed.

7. You do everything from bed: eat breakfast in bed, read in bed, even file your taxes in bed.

8. There is never too much time that you can spend in bed.

9. You often daydream about dreaming in bed.

10. You feel most happy when cuddled up in bed and countdown the minutes to spend as long as you can in bed.

If you resonate with at least 5 of these statements, chances are you're a clinomaniac. I'm giggling as I write this from my bed right now. I love having the ability to recline comfortably on my pillows and snuggle up to my blanket at any moment. It brings me so much peace to be in bed, escaping off into a dream world whenever. Best of all is the class A comfort levels from doing things like homework and studying in bed.

Unfortunately, this newly captured love affair with my pillows may not be as amazing as it feels. If you linger in bed excessively for more than 2 weeks, you could actually be showing signs of clinical depression . If you are feeling constant tiredness and result in staying in bed all day, you could be suffering from chronic fatigue syndrome . More than likely, if you are reading this article then chances are you might be like me: a self-proclaimed clinomaniac who is simply in a love affair with their bed, pillows, blankets, and all things sleeping. I wish you all the sweetest of dreams and bid you a good night and farewell! :)

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I'm Not The Person I Was In High School And I'm Not Sorry I Changed

I'm sorry, the old me can't come to the phone right now.


If those who knew me in high school hung out with me now, they probably wouldn't recognize me. If my friends from college hung out with me around two years ago, they probably wouldn't recognize me. It's safe to say I've changed... a lot. I definitely find the change to be for the better and I couldn't be happier with the person I've become

In high school, I would sit at home every night anxiously waiting to leave and go out. Now, honestly, going out is the last thing I want to do any night of the week. While everyone in college is at a fraternity party or at the bars, I prefer to sit at home on the couch, watching Netflix with my boyfriend. That's an ideal night for me and it is exactly the opposite of what I wanted to do a couple of years ago. There's nothing wrong with going out and partying, it's just not what I want to do anymore.

I craved attention in high school. I went to the parties and outings so I could be in Snapchats and photos, just so people would know I was there. I hung out with certain groups of people just so I could say I was "friends" with so-and-so who was so very popular. I wanted to be known and I wanted to be cool.

Now, I couldn't care less. I go to the bars or the parties if I really feel like it or if my friends make me feel bad enough for never going anywhere that I finally decide to show up. It's just not my scene anymore and I no longer worry about missing out.

If you could look back at me during my junior year of high school, you probably would've found me searching for the best-ranked party schools and colleges with the best nearby clubs or bars. Now, you can find me eating snacks on the couch on a Friday night watching the parties through other peoples' Snapchats.

Some may say that I'm boring now, and while I agree that my life is a little less adventurous now than it was in high school, I don't regret the lifestyle changes I've made. I feel happier, I feel like a better person, I feel much more complete. I'm not sorry that I've changed since high school and I'm not sorry that I'm not living the typical "college lifestyle." I don't see anything wrong with that life, it's just not what makes me happy and it's not what I want to do anymore.

I've become a different person since high school and I couldn't be happier about it. I have a lot that's contributed to the change, but my boyfriend definitely was the main factor as he showed me that staying in can be a million times better than a night out. My interests and my social cravings have completely transitioned into that of an 80-year-old grandma, but I don't regret it.

Change doesn't have to be a bad thing. In fact, it can bring a lot more happiness and comfort. The transition from high school to college is drastic, but you can also use it as an opportunity to transition from one lifestyle to another. I don't regret the lifestyle flip I made and I couldn't be less apologetic about it.

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