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not everything is meant for you, and that's okay

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not everything is meant for you, and that's okay

I have always struggled with accepting that not everything is meant for me and my life. I have applied for jobs that I haven't gotten, even interviewed for one that I really wanted and didn't get. I thought about all the possible reasons for them not to hire me. Did I not answer a question correctly? Did I present myself well enough? Did I say something stupid? Was I not good enough? ...hold up. "Was I not good enough?" I have asked myself this question SO many times and I know most people do. Whether it is a relationship not working out, a friendship falling apart, or not getting hired for a job. I find myself always asking "was I just not good enough for this person / job / whatever situation?" I always have to take a step back and remind myself that not everything is meant for me. I am a firm believer in the overused saying that everything happens for a reason. Yes. Even that relationship that didn't work out. It happened for a reason! That job I didn't get? It happened for a reason! Want to know why? Because I got an even better job that I love more than I thought I would have loved the job that I didn't get. When it comes to relationships, there are hard pills to swallow after a breakup. I know so many people question their worthiness, but your/my worthiness is not the problem. Something we all have to understand is that we change everyday. We're changing all the time! Sometimes you outgrow people or situations and they just aren't meant for you anymore and THAT'S OKAY! Change is scary, but it can be great. It just means there are better things in store for you and your life. So when you find yourself questioning why it didn't workout with someone / a job / a certain situation, just remember that there are bigger and better things meant for your life and you just have to have patience.

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