No Matter What

No Matter What

You're Gonna Be Okay

Life is sometimes overwhelming. Sometimes it crushes your spirit and the spark that once burned bright. Sometimes, although you don't voice it, you are not okay.

More often than I would like to admit, I have days where I feel defeated. Whether it's a bad grade, a inconsiderate comment made by a friend, or a lack of being noticed, I fall asleep feeling completely drained. I walk through this life and the spark no longer pushes me forward. But rather, I drag my feet with the weight of the world on my shoulders.

I have those days, you have those days, we all have those days. The days where we put a smile on our faces, while on the inside, our minds scream "you are not okay." But, why do we hide it? Why must we hide our emotion? Why do we hold it in and let it consume us? Why do we carry the burden alone? Why is not okay, to not be okay?

We live in a society where we feel pressured to always be okay. But, let me fill you in on a secret. You do NOT have to pretend to be okay. Be honest, with others and yourself. Find time to sit and contemplate the fact that you are truly NOT okay. Accept it and stop running. Instead of running, instead of faking it, be honest with the one who's love conquers even the most weary of souls. Take the fact that you are not okay and lay it before the Lord. Pray to Jesus, cry out and ask for His love to wash over you.

It is okay not to be okay, but don't let it overwhelm you. Instead, accept it and turn it over to God.

We all experience days where we fake it and the smile plastered a crossed our faces, do nothing to make us feel better. But, don't loose heart, because that spark that has gone from your eyes, is found in the hope and love God offers to all His children. You and I may never be able to fully say, "Today, I am 100% okay." But, don't worry, because God's love is victorious in all circumstances. So, turn to Jesus and fall into his loving embrace, because it is in His arms, that everything will be made right and everything will always be okay.

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10 Things Someone Who Grew Up In A Private School Knows

The 10 things that every private school-goer knows all too well.


1. Uniforms

Plaid. The one thing that every private school-goer knows all too well. It was made into jumpers, skirts, shorts, scouts, hair ties, basically anything you could imagine, the school plaid was made into. You had many different options on what to wear on a normal day, but you always dreaded dress uniform day because of skirts and ballet flats. But it made waking up late for school a whole lot easier.

2. New people were a big deal

New people weren't a big thing. Maybe one or two a year to a grade, but after freshman year no one new really showed up, making the new kid a big deal.

3. You've been to school with most of your class since Kindergarten

Most of your graduating class has been together since Kindergarten, maybe even preschool, if your school has it. They've become part of your family, and you can honestly say you've grown up with your best friends.

4. You've had the same teachers over and over

Having the same teacher two or three years in a row isn't a real surprise. They know what you are capable of and push you to do your best.

5. Everyone knows everybody. Especially everyone's business.

Your graduating class doesn't exceed 150. You know everyone in your grade and most likely everyone in the high school. Because of this, gossip spreads like wildfire. So everyone knows what's going on 10 minutes after it happens.

6. Your hair color was a big deal

If it's not a natural hair color, then forget about it. No dyeing your hair hot pink or blue or you could expect a phone call to your parents saying you have to get rid of it ASAP.

7. Your school isn't like "Gossip Girl"

There is no eating off campus for lunch or casually using your cell phone in class. Teachers are more strict and you can't skip class or just walk right off of campus.

8. Sports are a big deal

Your school is the best of the best at most sports. The teams normally go to the state championships. The rest of the school that doesn't play sports attends the games to cheer on the teams.

9. Boys had to be clean-shaven, and hair had to be cut

If you came to school and your hair was not cut or your beard was not shaved, you were written up and made to go in the bathroom and shave or have the head of discipline cut your hair. Basically, if you know you're getting written up for hair, it's best just to check out and go get a hair cut.

10. Free dress days were like a fashion show

Wearing a school uniform every day can really drive you mad. That free dress day once a month is what you lived for. It was basically a fashion show for everyone, except for those upperclassmen who were over everything and just wore sweat pants.

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An Ending Is A New Beginning

The end is just the beginning of a new story.


Endings are hard. They are bittersweet, and almost always painful; Whether it is the ending of a book, a movie, a beloved tv series, or a relationship.

Endings to me are the start of something new and fresh. There is a breath of fresh air to the closing of one door and the opening of another. From now on, my focus is on me and how I can best love myself. I want to be involved more in school activities and stay at school more weekends, rather than head home to see someone.

I have never taken time for myself. I always put others first, and there is never anything wrong with that, but it begins to weigh on a person when they neglect their own needs.

My new philosophy is that my happiness and my needs are going to come first. I put off what I needed for a long time in favor of someone else's needs. People often forget that their feelings matter too when they're in a relationship, and out their significant other above themselves. This ending for me is the absolute fresh start after a long almost three years where I put how I felt on the back burner in favor of someone else.

Now, it's my turn to start putting myself first and become an even better version of me.

Always make sure that you take care of yourself in every possible situation; Your health is the most important thing about you. If you don't take care of yourself before you try to take care of someone else, it will only end badly for both people involved.

Self-love and self-care are the most important things for a person, and my self-love is starting with growing out my hair, finishing out this second semester strong, and planning a beach trip for May with some of my favorite human beings.

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