Is It Too Late To Try?

Is It Too Late To Try?

At this point it just seems like a lost cause to learn something new, right?

I have been saying my whole life that I always wish I knew how to play the piano, but I never learned as a child so I just wrote it off as a lost cause. Apparently, at the ripe old age of 21, I am too old to learn something new...

But if we stop trying to learn new things how do we continue to grow? We learn new skills to succeed in whatever classes we’re taking, or jobs we’re trying to land post-grad (cringe). Learning how to do something new shouldn’t be limited to only the things we deem necessary to be an adult. If we’re only living to work, what’s the point?

Life is not intended to be solely focused on working and making money. If you want to live a full life you need to make the effort to fill it- fill it with people who love you, with hobbies you enjoy, with the small things that make you smile every day. If you can’t think of one thing to smile about even at the end of your worst day, then you’re doing something wrong.

If we go through a majority of our lives just wishing we knew how to do something instead of actively trying to master these skills we miss out on so much. Why not try to learn a new language now? Why not go buy a cheap guitar or keyboard, sign up for a class, or teach yourself. There are so many resources so easily accessible to us that we just don’t take advantage of because we think it’s too late to try.

I had never thought of myself as a writer, never really did anything beyond the required essays for class. But then one day I decided to apply for the Odyssey and now two years later it was one of the best things I could have ever done. I took a chance with my writing and I could never have expected it to work out the way it did. I found something I was kind of good at and actually enjoyed doing. People were able to relate to the things I had to say and they liked reading whatever nonsense I was writing. A year later I became the Editor in Cheif, a role that has made me realise so much about myself- things I never would have known if I hadn't just decided to give writing a try.

It’s only too late if you let it get too late. Don’t put off something you want now. Set a goal for each day, week, month, year to learn something you’ve always wanted to. Don’t wait until you reach the point that you look back on your life and wish you could have done more because the only thing that’s stopping you is yourself.

Cover Image Credit: Ilya Yakover on Unsplash

Popular Right Now

A Letter To My Go-To Aunt

Happiness is having the best aunt in the world.

I know I don't say it enough, so let me start off by saying thank you.

You'll never understand how incredibly blessed I am to have you in my life. You'll also never understand how special you are to me and how much I love you.

I can't thank you enough for countless days and nights at your house venting, and never being too busy when I need you. Thank you for the shopping days and always helping me find the best deals on the cutest clothes. For all the appointments I didn't want to go to by myself. Thank you for making two prom days and a graduation party days I could never forget. Thank you for being overprotective when it comes to the men in my life.

Most importantly, thank you for being my support system throughout the numerous highs and lows my life has brought me. Thank you for being honest even when it isn't what I want to hear. Thank you for always keeping my feet on the ground and keeping me sane when I feel like freaking out. Thank you for always supporting whatever dream I choose to chase that day. Thank you for being a second mom. Thank you for bringing me into your family and treating me like one of your own, for making me feel special because you do not have an obligation to spend time with me.

You've been my hero and role model from the time you came into my life. You don't know how to say no when family comes to you for help. You're understanding, kind, fun, full of life and you have the biggest heart. However, you're honest and strong and sometimes a little intimidating. No matter what will always have a special place in my heart.

There is no possible way to ever thank you for every thing you have done for me and will continue to do for me. Thank you for being you.

Cover Image Credit: Pixabay

Related Content

Connect with a generation
of new voices.

We are students, thinkers, influencers, and communities sharing our ideas with the world. Join our platform to create and discover content that actually matters to you.

Learn more Start Creating

Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

Related Content

Facebook Comments