These same people who have such high expectations are the same people who feel that they are entitled to have a say on whom someone should be in love with. Religion contributes a large portion to this controversy; enforcing this idea that people are meant to be heterosexual, one man and one female. This idea has meshed with the belief that loving someone of the same sex is wrong and immoral. While heterosexuality follows common tradition some of the most loving relationships and friendships I have witnessed were by homosexual individuals.

I strongly believe and encourage the idea that everyone has a right to their own opinion. If they feel strongly in the Bible's teachings of heterosexuality that is fine and their own perrogative; but in regards to judging someone or taking their rights away because of who they love not only is unacceptable but it also lacks compassion and love for all people, thus disobeying God's hopes for loving everyone. If someone cannot accept another individual for being gay, bi, or straight they are not loving that person unconditionally and God calls us to love our neighbor without judgment.