Saying the words 'long distance relationship' often feel almost like taboo. Yes, I myself am in an LDR.

Timing really can be your enemy; I met my boyfriend, after growing up in the same city our entire lives, a month before he moved a couple hours away. Yet, we did a crazy thing. We gave it a shot, knowing that eventually (sooner rather than later) we would be back in the same city as the best versions of ourselves.

Almost two years later our relationship is stronger, truer, and so full of genuine love. Yes, we are long distance, and, yes, some days I really can feel every mile between us. However, the distance does not invite your judgment.

I'm going to break it down and be transparent.

To those who feel so compelled to let me know their feelings about my LDR, just stop. I did not, nor will I, ask for your unsolicited advise. Do you realize the more you say, the less I want to be around you?

To those who are curious to know if I think he's cheating on me. No, no I don't. Much like any relationship, local or distant, you have to have trust. If you even have any doubt of loyalty than you should examine your relationship and figure out why you feel the way you do.

To those who think it's not a 'real' relationship because our day-in-and-day-out is a little different than yours, or that because we have a weekend together it's considered a 'vacation'. Then go right ahead and have your opinions, really, please do. I get the way the world works - I have opinions too. However, if you feel that you would like to express yours, then buckle up, Sugar, because I have a few thoughts for you, too.

And, to those who think we shouldn't talk about marriage.

We are two adults - two adults who love each other, who trust in each other, who encourage each other, and who have committed themselves to each other. We do talk about marriage for the future, one hundred percent, and guess what, your opinions will not change that.

If two people are happy, doing good things in the world, in love, and just so happen to be long distance, then why bother them? I would like to think that you have the best of intentions when making statements about my relationship, but do yourself a favor and think before you speak. You may not realize that the quick statement you make will have a big impact on the relationship you have with me in the future.