My Boyfriend May Not Be Perfect, But He Is Perfect For Me | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

My Boyfriend May Not Be Perfect, But He Is Perfect For Me

Nobody's perfect.

102
My Boyfriend May Not Be Perfect, But He Is Perfect For Me
Wordpress.com

Perfection. An idea we put in our head. Something or someone so ideal, that this high standard cannot be achieved. From a young age, I began to learn my lessons on perfection. My friends weren't perfect, my parents weren't perfect, neither was I. "Nobody's perfect" became a cliche saying. So much so, Hannah Montana's "Nobody's Perfect" became my jam.

Just like everyone else in my life, my boyfriend is not "perfect". But just like all of the other people in my life, he is "perfect" for me. My boyfriend makes me strive to be a better person. His idiosyncrasies make him who he is and make him my best friend. My idiosyncrasies make me who I am. Without these, our relationship would not work.

For example, I will eat anything you put in front of me. My boyfriend is a bit pickier. Despite how this could be annoying at times, it is always fun to guess which one of his "usuals" he is going to order. I am a complete rule-follower, he is a bit more care-free and isn't afraid to break the status quo. If our relationship was in my hands, we would do nothing adventurous. He is very particular when it comes to how he likes things done. On the other hand, I could care less. He's very organized and I am a slob.

These differences we have are what drive us together. We may not be perfect, especially if you were to judge us off of a piece of paper. But somehow, we work together. When I am unable to function do to stress, I have someone right by my side pushing me to relax and vice versa.

Nobody is going to the most "perfect" human. But love is accepting the person for all of their flaws and idiosyncrasies and not trying to change them. My boyfriend may not be perfect, but he is perfect for me. The people in my life may not be perfect, but they are perfect for me. I am definitely not perfect, but I am perfect for the people who matter in my life.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

274451
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

139725
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less
Health and Wellness

10 Hygiene Tips For All College Athletes

College athletes, it's time we talk about sports hygiene.

225833
Woman doing pull-ups on bars with sun shining behind her.

I got a request to talk about college athletes hygiene so here it is.

College athletes, I get it, you are busy! From class, to morning workouts, to study table, to practice, and more. But that does not excuse the fact that your hygiene comes first! Here are some tips when it comes to taking care of your self.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments