Moving Out For The Very First Time

Moving Out For The Very First Time

As the rooms now fill with my stuff, my anxiety and fears go away and I am confident that I can do this, and excited to see where this new chapter of my life takes me.

When moving out at the age of 19, you come up with a lot of fears and thoughts that swarm through your head. Can I do this? Will I be able to afford it? What if I miss home too much? It’s hard to move out for the first time, it’s a really big step into becoming an adult. In a new apartment or home, especially one you’re not used to, can be a little scary, right? More importantly though, it’s exciting. You get to take new risks and you finally get to let go of your childhood to enter into adulthood.

When you’re a child, all you do is rely on your parents. That’s what they are there for, to guide you and teach you, also to prepare you for life. When you’re young, you can’t even imagine ever moving out, you think it’s so far away, you have nothing in the world to worry about. Then, the teen years come around and all you’re thinking about is, when you can finally move out and get out of here. It flashes by so fast you can’t even imagine. Now as I am moving out, I can’t believe it’s real. For me, it’s a little different because I didn’t get that college experience where you are already moved out of the house, living in dorms, on a campus, then moving into an apartment/house. I was already previously living at home while attending college to save money while I figured out what to do next. I finally decided to take a risk and move out.

All I had were the clothes and furniture from my room to start off with. I moved in with four of my best friends and I couldn't be happier. We all were a little unprepared, because we all didn’t expect this to happen so soon. We didn’t have anything really yet, just an empty house with our boxes of clothes. The first night we all just sat in the living room, with no couch, no chairs, nothing. We didn’t care though, all we could think about is how we're going to have so many memories in this house and how it didn’t even matter that we had nothing to start with. We talked all night on how excited we were that we have come to this point in our lives.

Saying goodbye to my parents was harder than I expected it to be. I had been dreaming of moving out for so long and it finally happened. I went over in my head a million times on how I was going to tell them. I didn’t want my parents to think I was moving out because of them, I wanted to do it for myself, to make bigger decisions now that I am getting older. I don’t ever want my parents to think I won’t go back and visit them, because I know for the first few months, I'm sure I will be calling them non-stop with random questions. I know that I will still be going over there all the time, too. Not just for them, but also to see my dogs, because how are you suppose to tell them you won’t see them everyday anymore?

All of this was very hard to overcome, but when I told them, they were nothing but supportive for my decision. They wanted me to be happy and to live my life, and I couldn’t be more thankful for that.

As the boxes now become fewer and fewer, it’s becoming more real. As the rooms now fill with my stuff, my anxiety and fears go away and I am confident that I can do this, and excited to see where this new chapter of my life takes me.

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As this December I hit my 24th year of life, along the way I've picked up a few life lessons that have truly shaped me into the woman I am today.

1.You change.

You are an ever changing force, every year brings a new you. So rock the new you because you are amazing.

2. People change.


Just like you change, other people change too. Understand that no one will ever be the same person and that you should encourage their evolution!

3. Life is messy.

Nothing in life goes exactly the way you want them to. Learn to ride with the crazy bumps in the road and take every moment as a learning opportunity.

4. Dogs really are your best friends.


Dogs. Are. Life.

5. Age doesn’t equal maturity.

Experience in life measures your maturity. You could be 40 and have never experienced a hardship in your life, or you could be 12 and have experienced life altering tragedy.

6. Love is the greatest force on earth.


As cheesy as it may seem, love really does make the world go round. Having love and compassion for those around you seriously make a difference in not only your life, but in the lives of others.

7.Traveling makes you wiser.

When you travel, you see things outside of your little bubble. I’ve moved over 35 times in my life and I can 100% say that it has shown me so much of the world.

8. Be true to yourself.


Never be ashamed of who you are. Never feel like you have to hide a piece of yourself because those around you can’t handle it. Be you boo boo.

9. Family is not unconditional.

Just because you are blood doesn’t mean you are forever.

10. Learn to love your friends.


Family can come in the form of friends, embrace those around you that only have your best interests at heart.

11. Let go of negativity.

In the words of Elsa “Let it GOOOOOO” LET IT GOOOOOOOO. Seriously, be it negative people, thoughts, situations. Let that all go out of your life and live as positive as possible.

12. Burst out in song... a lot.


Belt out every song you love when they come on. It’s free therapy.

13. Always be honest about your feelings.

Not saying how you feel only leaves you feeling worse at the end of the day. Not saying you have to scream to the world how you are feeling but at least be honest with yourself about what’s really going on.

14. Pizza is the only food group that matters.


Also, putting pineapple on your pizza makes you a heathen.

15. Have self confidence.

LOVE YOURSELF. I know it’s tough to love who you are everyday but at the end of the day having confidence in yourself is so important.

16.Turning 21 makes life so much easier.


Finally, you don't have to rely on others for drinks!!!! That's pretty much a life changing moment for all of us.

17. Stop and smell the roses.

Seriously, stop and smell the roses. You might realize that you prefer the smell of Irises.

18. Fall in love.


Take the dive into romance, let yourself fall into your emotions and experience one of the most amazing things this life has to offer. Not saying it’ll be a perfect romance but it will be a hell of a ride.

19.Your body changes.

My body has been all over the place with change. Whatever happens, just remember that you’ve got one body and you need to love it.

20. Go on adventures. 


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21. Write out your thoughts.

Nothing feels better than taking a pen to paper and letting your emotions be the ink.

22. Speak your mind.


Speak up! Say what is on your mind, never hold anything back. You could change the world with your words.

23. Self care is always necessary.

Take time to take care of yourself. Face masks, bubble baths, hot tea or whatever makes you feel zen. Do it, your body will thank you.

24. Just be happy. 

At the end of the day what matters most is your happiness. Live life to the fullest and just be happy.

Here's to 24 years, and to many more years of a good life and the coming wisdom.

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