A Motivational Letter To A Very Unmotivated Mid-Semester Me

A Motivational Letter To A Very Unmotivated Mid-Semester Me

In the words of Frank Ocean, we feel "sluggish, lazy, stupid and unconcerned."
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Dear Mid-Semester Me,

We are tired and unmotivated. It doesn't help that Spring Break ending just added to that mindset. Anyway, we're back and in the final haul for the second semester.

But we're not there yet.

It takes an ocean of coffee and a mountain of motivation to drag our butt out of bed and up the Quad to class. It takes every ounce of energy to focus and study for our classes. Heck, even going out on the weekends feels like a chore these days. Some nights, when we're out of meal punches and have no food, we'll just have a granola bar for dinner. In the words of Frank Ocean, we feel "sluggish, lazy, stupid and unconcerned."

All we really want to do these days is sit on the sofa in our comfiest sweatpants with a pint of Ben & Jerry's Phish Food and watch HGTV all day long. The weather is cold and windy and makes you just want to sit inside instead of going out to class, to see friends or even to go party. Morale is really at an all-time low.

But we can do it.

Wanna know how I know?

Because you've been in this position before and you have made it through alive.

I've seen us push through some really tough situations so I know you can get through this rough patch. Think about our dreams and aspirations and goals. Think about how far you've already come! We've made it through six semesters in college already! We only have two and a half left. Just keep pushing through.

Remember last year when we felt this way? We cried, lost sleep, skipped classes to study for other classes, put on a heavy load, thinking we could do it without a second thought. It was difficult. But we did it.

Remember freshman year when we had a breakdown? We thought that it was the end of the line for us. But we still pulled through.

But we didn't do it by ourselves. We had the support of our friends and family the entire time. This is a reminder that it is okay to turn to them when you need a shoulder, a hug or just some words of motivation! They want to see us succeed more than anyone else and they will be there for us just like we're there for them when they need us.

So while it seems like we're stuck in a rut now, just remember how far we've come and how much we've grown. We still have many more miles to go and a lot more growing to do! So let's shake off the bad vibes and get back into the swing of things! We have our whole life to look forward to so why let something hold you back?

Go get 'em, girl.

Love,

Me

Cover Image Credit: Madelene Whitfield

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I Am A College Student, And I Think Free Tuition Is Unfair To Everyone Who's Already Paid For It

Stop expecting others to pay for you.

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I attend Fordham University, a private university in the Bronx.

I commute to school because I can't afford to take out more loans than I already do.

Granted, I've received scholarships because of my grades, but they don't cover my whole tuition. I am nineteen years old and I have already amassed the debt of a 40-year-old. I work part-time and the money I make covers the bills I have to pay. I come from a middle-class family, but my dad can't afford to pay off my college loans.

I'm not complaining because I want my dad to pay my loans off for me; rather I am complaining because while my dad can't pay my loans off (which, believe me, he wants too), he's about to start paying off someone else's.

During the election, Bernie frequently advocated for free college.

Now, if he knew enough about economics he would know it simply isn't feasible. Luckily for him, he is seeing his plan enacted by Cuomo in NY. Cuomo has just announced that in NY, state public college will be free.

Before we go any further, it's important to understand what 'free' means.

Nothing is free; every single government program is paid for by the taxpayers. If you don't make enough to have to pay taxes, then something like this doesn't bother you. If you live off welfare and don't pay taxes, then something like this doesn't bother you. When someone offers someone something free, it's easy to take it, like it, and advocate for it, simply because you are not the one paying for it.

Cuomo's free college plan will cost $163,000,000 in the first year (Did that take your breath away too?). Now, in order to pay for this, NY state will increase their spending on higher education to cover these costs. Putting two and two together, if the state decides to raise their budget, they need money. If they need money they look to the taxpayers. The taxpayers are now forced to foot the bill for this program.

I think education is extremely important and useful.

However, my feelings on the importance of education does not mean that I think it should be free. Is college expensive? Yes -- but more so for private universities. Public universities like SUNY Cortland cost around $6,470 per year for in-state residents. That is still significantly less than one of my loans for one semester.

I've been told that maybe I shouldn't have picked a private university, but like I said, I believe education is important. I want to take advantage of the education this country offers, and so I am going to choose the best university I could, which is how I ended up at Fordham. I am not knocking public universities, they are fine institutions, they are just not for me.

My problems with this new legislation lie in the following: Nowhere are there any provisions that force the student receiving aid to have a part-time job.

I work part-time, my sister works part-time, and plenty of my friends work part-time. Working and going to school is stressful, but I do it because I need money. I need money to pay my loans off and buy my textbooks, among other things. The reason I need money is because my parents can't afford to pay off my loans and textbooks as well as both of my sisters'. There is absolutely no reason why every student who will be receiving aid is not forced to have a part-time job, whether it be working in the school library or waitressing.

We are setting up these young adults up for failure, allowing them to think someone else will always be there to foot their bills. It's ridiculous. What bothers me the most, though, is that my dad has to pay for this. Not only my dad, but plenty of senior citizens who don't even have kids, among everyone else.

The cost of living is only going up, yet paychecks rarely do the same. Further taxation is not a solution. The point of free college is to help young adults join the workforce and better our economy; however, people my parents' age are also needed to help better our economy. How are they supposed to do so when they can't spend their money because they are too busy paying taxes?

Free college is not free, the same way free healthcare isn't free.

There is only so much more the taxpayers can take. So to all the students about to get free college: get a part-time job, take personal responsibility, and take out a loan — just like the rest of us do. The world isn't going to coddle you much longer, so start acting like an adult.

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Writing Saved My Sanity

Write it all down when you can't talk to anyone.

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I love writing.

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I was scared to express myself to him sometimes, the intensity of my feelings for him scared me. So instead of telling him, I wrote them down. When I tried to share them with him, he hated it. He thought writing down feelings was weird and creepy. So I didn't share anything else with him. When we finally broke up for good, everything just poured out of me. What I couldn't express verbally, I wrote or typed out.

I always have ideas flowing through my head. They never cease and I wouldn't want them to. Writing gives me an escape, from stress, work, school, or fights. It gives me a place to vent and to be open with everything. This is a reason I love writing for Odyssey, not only has this place brought me amazing friends but revived my love for writing. I'm never without my notebook anymore, I'd get distracted in class by an idea and have to write I think then and there.

I love sharing my more personal writing with close friends, especially my poems as of late. I found that I have a voice for young women who find themselves in a toxic relationship much like mine was. I want to speak out and show them that you can grow from the bullshit. It may take some time, but you will be better.

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