The 3 Most Important Things In Life?

The 3 Most Important Things In Life?

A simple question that is not so simple to answer.

“Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.”

-Marcus Aurelius

Think about what the three most important things in your life are; the first thing that came to mind was probably happiness (you probably can’t really decide on the other two…yet). Happiness is such an easy answer to come up with, and it doesn’t require in-depth thinking about the question. The best way to answer such a thought provoking question is to break it down and really identify the three things in your life that will cause your happiness. Take a trip inside my mind and discover my three most important things in life.


I consider health to be the most important thing in life because without your health, what are you really able to do? Envision this, you hit the lottery (I know, as if right? Just bear with me) and you land $90 million. Two weeks later you begin to feel extremely ill so you go to the doctor and they tell you that you have (you can make up something drastic here), and you will probably be partially paralyzed and on life support; material items, pizza, Game of Thrones, masturbating and other things you’ve always enjoyed no longer seem as important with your health gone.


What would we really do without education? Maybe we would have no medicine for deadly diseases and we would be dying out from the Black Plague. Maybe there would be no IPhone 7 for you to pull out and ask Siri where the nearest coffee shop is. Without education, maybe Donald Trump and Hilary Clinton will be the two main presidential candidates one day…oops. Seriously though, education is the key to our future and evolution as a species. People overlook the value of education and take it for granted, you begin to realize how great education is when you go from “just talking”, to conversing with someone over an intellectual subject matter. I’ll leave you with one more example of why education is so essential: ever text someone who doesn’t know the difference between there, their, and they’re?


Most people who aren’t happy in their life, and who are always chasing something “better”, lack a sense of gratitude. Having gratitude in your life is very important, it doesn’t mean you should just settle for what you have and stop chasing what you want, but it does mean appreciating everything you’re fortunate enough to have in your life. You have to realize no matter how bad your day is going, there is someone in the world that would love to have your bad days. Moreover, we tend to overlook the small things in our first world life, such as a flushing toilet. We don’t realize how crucial flushing a toilet is until nature decides to turn off your power for a few days (better fill up the tub).

Always remember that health should be the most important thing to you. Take care of your body and it will take care of you. Education is in at second. Focus on developing your mind every day and learning as much as you can. Lastly, remember that things in your life could always be worse, and if you appreciate what you have in your life already, you will always be happy.

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A Letter To My Go-To Aunt

Happiness is having the best aunt in the world.

I know I don't say it enough, so let me start off by saying thank you.

You'll never understand how incredibly blessed I am to have you in my life. You'll also never understand how special you are to me and how much I love you.

I can't thank you enough for countless days and nights at your house venting, and never being too busy when I need you. Thank you for the shopping days and always helping me find the best deals on the cutest clothes. For all the appointments I didn't want to go to by myself. Thank you for making two prom days and a graduation party days I could never forget. Thank you for being overprotective when it comes to the men in my life.

Most importantly, thank you for being my support system throughout the numerous highs and lows my life has brought me. Thank you for being honest even when it isn't what I want to hear. Thank you for always keeping my feet on the ground and keeping me sane when I feel like freaking out. Thank you for always supporting whatever dream I choose to chase that day. Thank you for being a second mom. Thank you for bringing me into your family and treating me like one of your own, for making me feel special because you do not have an obligation to spend time with me.

You've been my hero and role model from the time you came into my life. You don't know how to say no when family comes to you for help. You're understanding, kind, fun, full of life and you have the biggest heart. However, you're honest and strong and sometimes a little intimidating. No matter what will always have a special place in my heart.

There is no possible way to ever thank you for every thing you have done for me and will continue to do for me. Thank you for being you.

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I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

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I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

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