Why I love My Mother

Why I love My Mother

She's pretty rad.
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The answer is pretty obvious: doesn't everyone love their mom? And while the majority do, there is also part of the world that doesn't.

Fortunately, I am in the former rather than the latter.

My mom is a wonderful human being. She took an adversity of being a single mother and raised me as if the whole world was on her back.

My first year of life kept me in the hospital for a good long time. And it was hard on mom. She fought to stay with me all the time, and feel comfortable. And when expenses got to be too much, that woman got a job down in the city; where she could be close to me and make a living.

The following years brought more hardships. I lived with my grandparents while she worked to support my brother and I. It wasn't an experience I'm willing to trade; however, I did miss out on mom not being at concerts or being able to pick me up after school with the magazine shipment or even be there for bath time.

But now I can see that she taught me so much more being away. I know the value of a dollar and work for what I have and what I want. I know that love doesn't come easy and that family may need to fight for a second chance. I learned that loyalty and knowledge go a long way in this game called life and should not be taken for granted.

Most of all, I learned that my mother is a warrior and that she is the kind of woman that I want to be when I grow up.

Thank you, mom, for the knowledge, love, and sacrifice you have given me for almost 21 years.

I wouldn't be here without it.

Cover Image Credit: Barb Blunk Oviatt

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5 Perks Of Having A Long-Distance Best Friend

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Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.

While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.

This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...

1. Getting to see each other is a special event.

Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.

2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.

This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.

3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.

While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.

4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.

When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.

5. You know they will always be a part of your life.

If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.

The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.

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Dear African-American Parents, You've Raised Some Strong Children

"Be bold. Be brave. Be beautiful. Be brilliant. Be (your) best." - Renée Watson

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I feel like I was lucky to be born in Black History Month. I mean, the culture, the new information that I discover, everything about Black History Month is my favorite. I also get to celebrate my mom (but when do I not celebrate her?) more than usual.

I've always looked up to my mother and it shows in how I act, speak, talk, walk, and write. She is a powerhouse and I know that she's tired, but I'd like to think of my brother and me being her motivation to keep pushing forward and not quitting. She's taught me more in 19 years than any textbook in school could have and she's taking on life, single and with her head held high because that's the type of woman she is. She's had to tackle raising my brother and me alone while helping us with homework, cheering us on at games and recitals, cooking our favorite meals, and putting us through college. She's superwoman in my eyes and I can only hope that I can be like this when I become a mother.

To all other African-American parents, you may not realize this, but you've raised some of the strongest children ever. You've given them reasons to stay in school and it's totally cliché, but you're the reason they want to buy their mother a new house or get their father a new truck. You're exposing them to the horrors of the world before the rest of society wakes up and sees the truth — it scares us at first, but you have to tell us otherwise we look stupid and you don't want your babies walking around with their heads down because they were unaware of the hatred that they had to endure because of a slight difference they have.

You made us understand that we should not be judged by the color of our skin, but by the content of our character and that we are not who society has stereotyped us to be. You've done an amazing job and I couldn't be any happier to be in such an amazing community.

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