Mom and Dad,
I’m not exactly sure where to start, because for once in my life I’m having a hard time putting my thoughts into words.
From day 1 you have been the base of my support system. You’ve seen my greatest accomplishments, but also the moments when I’m the most upset. Knowing you’ll be there through every possible circumstance is a reassuring thought that’s always in the back of my mind.
While I’ve watched friends struggle with their relationship with their parents I’m endlessly thankful for the bond we have. Even though I’m not the most open teenager, I couldn’t ask for a better home life. Sure, we fight and I talk back (probably a little too often), but when I compare our family to others, I know we’ll always be there for each other. There isn’t a moment when I ever question how close we’ll be over the next 10, 20, and (hopefully) 30 years.
The sacrifices you have made for me are unrepayable, and knowing you’re always a phone call away is comforting when I can’t see you in person. From a young age you have always told me that you would do your best to give me the tools to be successful, and that it would be my responsibility to use them to the best of my ability. I’d like to think that from afar, you’re thinking I am trying my hardest to do just that.
I think the most important thing you've taught me is to be accepting, loving, and appreciative of everyone in my life. It's not a hard thing to do, but is something many of us forget amongst the gossip, drama, and the everyday craziness of our lives. The idea that family comes first is one that I will stress to my children, grandchildren, and onward, because without family what else is there, really?
Even though the future is uncertain and I may not ever live permanently at home again, I know the past 17 years have been some of the best because of you. I may not understand the magnitude of the things you’ve done for me, but as the years go by, my appreciation increases exponentially. While I’m guilty of comparing our lives to others’, the “haves” and “have-nots” become irrelevant when I remember how much I've learned, gained, and loved because of you.
Ever since I’ve been away at college the idea of home and family has resonated with me more than ever. I may have two different “homes” now, but my home is still wherever you are. I wouldn't be anything close to the person I am today without you, and for that I give eternal thanks.
Love always,
Halie
