Millennials Are A Confused Generation

Millennials: The Confused Generation

Who are we to blame?


"Pretty woman walking down the street…pretty woman walking down the street…pretty woman…", and so the song goes. A 20-something year old is on his headphone while sitting in a still pose that resembles that of Pony Boy in The Outsiders on the bench of the stairs of some building while nodding his head in series as if he is constantly stating to the world to acknowledge his existence. But the world doesn't care and life moves on as it is. People are on their way to work, some people are walking their dogs, and others are just walking and minding their own business all in while looking down at their phone screen or at times having a conversation with their electronic gadgets. You rarely see people walking down the streets while their heads are covered in books or people walking down the streets and simply greet with one another with a simple 'Hello!'. And why…is that?

As people pass one another, in order to avoid any conversations and to have the social obligation to say a greeting of etiquette when confronting an individual on the street, their eyes gaze down on the phone screen. But as both individuals pass by one another, they see how both of their screens are either completely black or just in the home screen. The individuals cannot even laugh at this awkward and funny situation as the social timing of such prior precedents has already passed. Justification comes within the minds of the individuals such as "I had things to do and I'm in a hurry" or "That stranger looked like a weird individual and I had to avoid the person in order to protect myself from possible harm" or other long-form of justifications. And…the moment passes. Life moves on again and it continues. Never a chance again for the two individuals to greet one another. Slowly forgetting how to greet each other in the streets…losing the ties to the cultural formalities of the past.

But the funny thing is…people sometimes remember the past moments and have regret on the notion that they could have done something better at those moments. Or tries to remember those moments that were "done in the right way" and find comfort and consolation that they did something right at those certain moments of their lives. Just like the moments, obligations have time for it to be accomplished. But it seems that Millennials wants to avoid the obligations and instead blame the past individuals for creating such obligations in the first place and just like a rebellious teenager proclaim F the system and just move on with Life. The Yolo tribe with not much of giving their all to deal with obligations but very busy even managing their own lives while claiming that they have the rights as an individual to live their lives however they want. But the sad thing is that Life does not work that way. Life is almost as if… as soon as you're born into this world, whatever socio-economic/social status one may be…everybody is born with obligations befitting each individuals' circumstances. Because there are obligations and people fulfill the obligations in life…that's how Life moves on. But not understanding the fundamentals of Life and just live whatever, then perhaps it is like stating one's own death sentence. Life may go on a bit because of previous generations' fulfillment of obligations but it will go downhill for the next generations and the generations to come if we stop fulfilling obligations in life.

Just like how the past fulfilling moments can console us, the Millennials tries to rediscover some fulfilling moments of the past to relieve their current reality. Those fulfilling moments such as 'old' culture like 80's fashion, old hip hop, vintage look, old sports, and so on. Rather than fulfilling obligations in their current reality, the Millennials tries to remember 'old times' where many of the obligations of that generation had been fulfilled and find solace by having the illusion as if the obligations that the past generation had fulfilled is what the Millennials have fulfilled as well. This kind of action by the Millennials, perhaps it is more of escapism. Not facing the reality. Perhaps, the Millennials are scared. Many of them do not know how to fulfill their obligations in life as the previous generation such as the Baby Boomers were busy trying to rebuild the world after the devastation of the Second World War that they did not have time to pass on the knowledge and skills to fulfill obligations that Life tasks each generation with. The Baby Boomers, perhaps are the saddest generation since they had the obligations to rebuild the world in which their predecessor had screwed up with war while they had to fulfill further obligations to feed their family which is the next generation or the Millennials. The Millenials may perhaps live off of all the fruits harvested by the Baby Boomers…but if the Millenials just live off of it then there will be no future for the next generation (generation after the Millenials). The Baby Boomers created loads of debt for the Millenials due to economic mismanagement you say? Well, just like all generations, debt is not a new concept. The Silent Generations were busy rebuilding the nations and as well as trying to reshape moral obligations in society such as through civil rights (i.e. Martin Luther King Jr. is part of the Silent Generation). And therefore, the Silent Generations did not had time to train the Baby Boomers on how to deal with obligations in life. The Baby Boomers instead paid close attention to the Silent Generations on how they fulfilled their obligations in life and hence, the Baby Boomers in their best effort from their observation alone tried to fulfill their generation's obligations in life. Therefore, we have to give credit for the Baby Boomers' efforts and management. It is not the Baby Boomers' fault but in all honesty, the problem all started at the start of the Second World War since the GI Generations had no time to train the Silent Generation and the trend continued until the present. Henceforth, instead of complaining or yolo-ing, or swearing at the current reality, we, Millenials and the generations after, need to keep our heads together and actually work towards fulfilling our generations' obligations in Life. Otherwise, this whole cycle of blame, hate, and selfishness, and more casualties will continue as long as humanity exists. Henceforth, we cannot standby. We must fulfill our obligations in life. No excuses. It is time to face the obligations in life. And beat Life itself.

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Dear Senator Walsh, I Can't Wait For The Day That A Nurse Saves Your Life

And I hope you know that when it is your time, you will receive the best care. You will receive respect and a smile. You will receive empathy and compassion because that's what we do and that is why we are the most trusted profession.


Dear Senator Walsh,

I can't even fathom how many letters you've read like this in the past 72 hours. You've insulted one of the largest, strongest and most emotion-filled professions.. you're bound to get a lot of feedback. And as nurses, we're taught that when something makes us mad, to let that anger fuel us to make a difference and that's what we're doing.

I am not even a nurse. I'm just a nursing student. I have been around and I've seen my fair share of sore legs and clinical days where you don't even use the bathroom, but I am still not even a nurse yet. Three years in, though, and I feel as if I've given my entire life and heart to this profession. My heart absolutely breaks for the men and women who are real nurses as they had to wake up the next morning after hearing your comments, put on their scrubs and prepare for a 12-hour day (during which I promise you, they didn't play one card game).

I have spent the last three years of my life surrounded by nurses. I'm around them more than I'm around my own family, seriously. I have watched nurses pass more medications than you probably know exist. They know the side effects, dosages and complications like the back of their hand. I have watched them weep at the bedside of dying patients and cry as they deliver new lives into this world. I have watched them hang IV's, give bed baths, and spoon-feed patients who can't do it themselves. I've watched them find mistakes of doctors and literally save patient's lives. I have watched them run, and teach, and smile, and hug and care... oh boy, have I seen the compassion that exudes from every nurse that I've encountered. I've watched them during their long shifts. I've seen them forfeit their own breaks and lunches. I've seen them break and wonder what it's all for... but I've also seen them around their patients and remember why they do what they do. You know what I've never once seen them do? Play cards.

The best thing about our profession, Senator, is that we are forgiving. The internet might be blown up with pictures mocking your comments, but at the end of the day, we still would treat you with the same respect that we would give to anyone. That's what makes our profession so amazing. We would drop anything, for anyone, anytime, no matter what.

You did insult us. It does hurt to hear those comments because from the first day of nursing school we are reminded how the world has zero idea what we do every day. We get insulted and disrespected and little recognition for everything we do sometimes. But you know what? We still do it.

When it's your time, Senator, I promise that the nurse taking care of you will remember your comments. They'll remember the way they felt the day you publicly said that nurses "probably do get breaks. They probably play cards for a considerable amount of the day." The jokes will stop and it'll eventually die down, but we will still remember.

And I hope you know that when it is your time, you will receive the best care. You will receive respect and a smile. You will receive empathy and compassion because that's what we do and that is why we are the most trusted profession.

Please just remember that we cannot properly take care of people if we aren't even taken care of ourselves.

I sincerely pray that someday you learn all that nurses do and please know that during our breaks, we are chugging coffee, eating some sort of lunch, and re-tying our shoes... not playing cards.

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Dear Nancy Pelosi, 16-Year-Olds Should Not Be Able To Vote

Because I'm sure every sixteen year old wants to be rushing to the voting booth on their birthday instead of the BMV, anyways.


Recent politicians such as Nancy Pelosi have put the voting age on the political agenda in the past few weeks. In doing so, some are advocating for the voting age in the United States to be lowered from eighteen to sixteen- Here's why it is ludicrous.

According to a study done by "Circle" regarding voter turnout in the 2018 midterms, 31% of eligible people between the ages of 18 and 29 voted. Thus, nowhere near half of the eligible voters between 18 and 29 actually voted. To anyone who thinks the voting age should be lowered to sixteen, in relevance to the data, it is pointless. If the combination of people who can vote from the legal voting age of eighteen to eleven years later is solely 31%, it is doubtful that many sixteen-year-olds would exercise their right to vote. To go through such a tedious process of amending the Constitution to change the voting age by two years when the evidence doesn't support that many sixteen-year-olds would make use of the new change (assuming it would pass) to vote is idiotic.

The argument can be made that if someone can operate heavy machinery (I.e. drive a car) at sixteen, they should be able to vote. Just because a sixteen-year-old can (in most places) now drive a car and work at a job, does not mean that they should be able to vote. At the age of sixteen, many students have not had fundamental classes such as government or economics to fully understand the political world. Sadly, going into these classes there are students that had mere knowledge of simple political knowledge such as the number of branches of government. Well, there are people above the age of eighteen who are uneducated but they can still vote, so what does it matter if sixteen-year-olds don't know everything about politics and still vote? At least they're voting. Although this is true, it's highly doubtful that someone who is past the age of eighteen, is uninformed about politics, and has to work on election day will care that much to make it to the booths. In contrast, sixteen-year-olds may be excited since it's the first time they can vote, and likely don't have too much of a tight schedule on election day, so they still may vote. The United States does not need people to vote if their votes are going to be uneducated.

But there are some sixteen-year-olds who are educated on issues and want to vote, so that's unfair to them. Well, there are other ways to participate in government besides voting. If a sixteen-year-old feels passionate about something on the political agenda but can't vote, there are other ways of getting involved. They can canvas for politicians whom they agree with, or become active in the notorious "Get Out The Vote" campaign to increase registered voter participation or help register those who already aren't. Best yet, they can politically socialize their peers with political information so that when the time comes for all of them to be eighteen and vote, more eighteen-year-olds will be educated and likely to vote.

If you're a sixteen-year-old and feel hopeless, you're not. As the 2016 election cycle approached, I was seventeen and felt useless because I had no vote. Although voting is arguably one of the easiest ways to participate in politics, it's not the only one. Since the majority of the current young adult population don't exercise their right to vote, helping inform them of how to stay informed and why voting is important, in my eyes is as essential as voting.

Sorry, Speaker Pelosi and all the others who think the voting age should be lowered. I'd rather not have to pay a plethora of taxes in my later years because in 2020 sixteen-year-olds act like sheep and blindly vote for people like Bernie Sanders who support the free college.

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