1. What you want to say: you're being too sensitive.

What you should say instead: I hear what you're saying.

2. What you want to say: I just don't know if I want this anymore.

What you should say instead: I care about you, so I'm going to take some time to think about how I'm feeling.

NEVER use the word "but". It just comes off as the word "no". It sounds so much worse to say "I care about you but I need time to think". Don't do it.

3. What you want to say: You're getting on my nerves.

What you should say: I really need some alone time.

4. What you want to say: I'm sorry that your feelings got hurt.

What you should say: I'm sorry that I hurt your feelings.

5. What you want to say: Calm down.

What you should say: What's going on? How can I help?

6. What you want to say: Wow! You look great. How much weight have you lost?

What you should say: It's nice to see you.

7. What you want to say: You should smile more often.

What you should say instead: I love your smile!

8. What you want to say: You look great for your age.

What you should say instead: You are so beautiful.

9. What you want to say: My friends said that you're not my type.

What you should say instead: Literally nothing. At all.

10. What you want to say: Listen.

What you should say instead: Can we talk?

11. What you want to say: At least I don't ____________.

What you should say instead: I made a mistake.

Men, take ownership of your actions. Please.