Make Time For Those You Care About, Life Is Short
Start writing a post
Relationships

Make Time For Those You Care About, Life Is Short

My family is everything I am, it's my origin, it's my present, and it will always be my future.

274
Make Time For Those You Care About, Life Is Short

As summer approaches it's simple to think about all of the fun things you'll do and the new experiences you'll have with people that you care about. Sometimes it's easy to lose touch of those who are important to you when there are so many distractions or exciting events occurring around you. We need to remember those who have shaped us into the people we are today and how our love and kindness needs to be translated to them during the time that is spent together. With all of the hype and excitement about the summer, it's simple to slip into a different life that you haven't experienced yet. Each time I leave home, I always wish that I spent more time with my family because time is so precious.

I do my absolute best to balance it all, but sometimes it all just comes crashing down on me when time needs to be separated between different people. There are also pro's with spending time with new people as new experiences and memories are created which last a lifetime. After meeting these new people they usually become a big part of my life and I learn something special from each one. But family, now that's permanent and something that no friend or relationship could fill in my life. There's only a core amount of people who will always be there and have my full love and support constantly and that's my core, my family.

It's taken me a lot of time to realize how precious family is and how absolutely nothing could fill the gap or replace the ones that you love. On every break or chance that I have to be home, I do my absolute best to see everyone that I love and care about because time is so temporary. It's the moments that you have and the memories that you make with your loved ones that are without a doubt timeless. As soon as you learn those few lessons by living with such a supportive, loving family, everything else becomes much clearer.

Love is what love does, and even making time for the ones you care about just shows the character and person that you are. When you put yourself in situations to show people your love and support for the life they live and aspire to have, that speaks volumes and more. When you're separated or apart from those that you used to see every day, it starts to take a toll on your perception of them and how you used to view them. I used to have a low tolerance for some things that would aggravate me with my family, but now I would do absolutely anything to be sitting at the dinner table with them.

It's the little things that get to us and create the most anger in such a minimal situation. Sometimes we tend to create our own sour lemons when we initially could have kept or lemonade sweet without an issue. That's life though and that's how we learn the importance of who we are as well as where we came from. My family is everything I am, it's my origin, it's my present, and it will always be my future.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

80891
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

49229
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

980347
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments