I Love You Enough To Know It's Time To Say Goodnight

I Love You Enough To Know It's Time To Say Goodnight

I'll see you on the rainbow bridge, "good boy."

Losing a pet is arguably the hardest thing we will ever lose in our lives. Losing people is hard, yes, but losing a pet is a different kind of pain. Why? Humans live their lives and meet so many different people; they make connections to so many others and develop relationships all over. Humans are missed by so many. Pets? We are their whole lives. Whatever their lifespan may be, the goldfish we had for a few weeks, the dog we had for 15 years, the cat we had for 20, that parrot that spent 45 years alongside us, we were everything to them.

We come home each day, and they're the happiest to see us. A pet's love is unconditional, and you won't ever find that kind of loyalty in a human being. They are our family, more than family; they are our best friends, our confidants, our children, our little furry pain in the butts that we adore more than we adore anything else.

Then they grow old. Your rambuntious puppy slows down into a sad Eeyore and he looks at you with sad eyes. Those eyes are still begging for love, but their now pure white face makes them look like a ghost. This is the hardest part, you think. Watching them lose their energy, go deaf, blind, limp around the house because they don't have the same spring in their step any longer. Yes, you think seeing them like this is the hardest part.

Then the day comes where they can't eat. They can barely stand up to follow you outside. They whimper sad cries in the middle of the night. Their sad look turns into a plea for relief. You're left with a decision. This creature that just spent the entirety of their life is now looking at you to help them. What can you do?

You take them to the vet and the vet confirms the pain that you try to deny every day. In your eyes, they're still your happy puppy, your playful kitten, your baby bird. In a professional's eyes, they're suffering.

It takes a big chunk out of your heart to know that doing the right thing, isn't always the easiest thing. It takes a toll on your heart losing a pet that became more of your family than some of the humans you're related to. Yes, it does something to you, but what it does is give your pet the solution they deserve.

Making the choice to euthanize when the option is offered is something that most pet owners don't understand until they're given it first hand. If a pet is in so much pain that they can no longer lead their happy lives, you need to accept this. You need to keep your selfish emotions away from the decision and do what's best for them.

The most you can do for that pet on its last days is give them everything you've been saying "no" to its whole life. Give your dog that burger. Let your cat outside on the porch. Let your bird fly around the house. Do those things.

Then say goodnight.

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To The Parent Who Chose Addiction

Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.


When I was younger I resented you, I hated every ounce of you, and I used to question why God would give me a parent like you. Not now. Now I see the beauty and the blessings behind having an addict for a parent. If you're reading this, it isn't meant to hurt you, but rather to thank you.

Thank you for choosing your addiction over me.

Throughout my life, you have always chosen the addiction over my programs, my swim meets or even a simple movie night. You joke about it now or act as if I never questioned if you would wake up the next morning from your pill and alcohol-induced sleep, but I thank you for this. I thank you because I gained a relationship with God. The amount of time I spent praying for you strengthened our relationship in ways I could never explain.

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Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.

The amount of hurt and disappointment our family has gone through has brought us closer together. I have a relationship with Nanny and Pop that would never be as strong as it is today if you had been in the picture from day one. That in itself is a blessing.

Thank you for showing me how to love.

From your absence, I have learned how to love unconditionally. I want you to know that even though you weren't here, I love you most of all. No matter the amount of heartbreak, tears, and pain I've felt, you will always be my greatest love.

Thank you for making me strong.

Thank you for leaving and for showing me how to be independent. From you, I have learned that I do not need anyone else to prove to me that I am worthy of being loved. From you, I have learned that life is always hard, but you shouldn't give into the things that make you feel good for a short while, but should search for the real happiness in life.

Most of all, thank you for showing me how to turn my hurt into motivation.

I have learned that the cycle of addiction is not something that will continue into my life. You have hurt me more than anyone, but through that hurt, I have pushed myself to become the best version of myself.

Thank you for choosing the addiction over me because you've made me stronger, wiser, and loving than I ever could've been before.

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Hey, Bored Sports Fans, There Are Plenty Of Ways To Keep Yourself Entertained This Season

When sports get boring, you have to create your own fun.


It's not always easy being a sports fan. We have to deal with the offseason, sports analysts (who consistently think they know more than fans and athletes do), player injuries, and days going by during the season when our team isn't even playing. It's frustrating, to say the least, and sometimes it can get boring, too.

However, if you're a bored sports fan and want to change this, here's an example of what you can do.

First, go on Instagram and find Tom Brady's page. Once you're there go into the comments of a recent post and type in the following: "Aaron Rodgers is the GOAT." Submit your comment, and prepare to be amazed.

I guarantee that the responses you get will be as entertaining as they will be horrifying. Firstly, given that this is Tom Brady's account, many of his fans will relentlessly attack you. They'll call you names, make comments about your family (who they know nothing about), degrade your looks, and characterize you using every available synonym for "stupid" that exists. There are a few good Samaritans who will refrain from using profanity but will still explain to you why you're incorrect based on statistics, intangibles (such as leadership and likeability), and of course, their "expert" opinion.

Now, if you're lucky, a few brave souls who agree with your comment will come to your defense. They will defend both you and Aaron Rodgers as if you are family. A back-and-forth will occur, and an all-out war of words will take place. You should make it out alive, and hopefully much more entertained.

This concept can be applied to virtually any sports team or player, and the result should be relatively similar. Here are some more comments that should help to keep your nights occupied:

1. Lebron James's Instagram

Go to Lebron James's Instagram page and comment either: "Kobe Bryant is the GOAT" or "Michael Jordan is the GOAT." This can be done interchangeably if you go on either Michael or Kobe's account instead.

2. The Yankees' Instagram

Go to the Yankees' Instagram account and comment: "The Red Socks are better." Although I have to warn you, this comment might get you thrown out of New York.

3. Conor McGregor's Instagram

Go to Conor McGregor's Instagram account and comment: "Khabib Nurmagomedov is better."

4. Michigan State's College Football Instagram

Go to Michigan State's College Football Instagram account and comment: "Ohio State is better."

5. The Houston Rockets's Instagram

Go to the Houston Rockets's Instagram account and comment: "The Warriors are Better."

The list goes on.

Now, while this article is suggesting ways that you can start an online sports argument, I am in no way implying that you should actually go do this. Chances are you might get your feelings hurt and unnecessarily make others angry. So do not participate in any of this — unless of course, you are extremely bored.

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