For the Love of Theme Parties

For the Love of Theme Parties

ABC, Army, Neon, America, Around the World, Toga....

Theme parties – boys dread them, girls love them. When it comes to theme parties, it’s about having the best outfit for the best Instagram. Besides, costumes make everything more fun! Theme parties are the essence of college. Whether it be army, ABC (anything but clothes), country-western, neon, America, or around the world, there is a great costume to be worn, pictures to be taken, and memories to be had.

I went to my first theme party my freshman year of college. It was a disco theme, and everyone was into it. The following day, however, was another party that wasn’t nearly as fun. My guess? The lack of costumes at the second party really hindered the overall spirit. It’s hard to compare a party that was a big hit among all who were in attendance, and a party no one really enjoyed. It was evident that with the disco music and groovy set of digs, it won the best party of the year.

However, boys don’t seem to hold the same enthusiasm for theme parties. Groans of “I don’t want to pick out an outfit,” “This theme is so stupid,” “Ugh, I can’t wear my Lulu shorts because it doesn’t fit the them--I hate this already” may seem to dampen the essence of theme parties, but I believe that deep down, they love putting new clothes on their back and taking pictures in their themed get-up just as much as girls do.

The negative of theme parties is often the chosen theme. It is not going to be enjoyable to host an ABC party in the dead of winter, because everyone will leave for fear of frostbite. Nothing is worse than people leaving your theme party that you put so much effort into, knowing that the next day you will hear whispers of its epic failure. It’s equally stupid to use an over-used theme. Would you want to attend a toga party if there were three other toga parties the week before? Probably not. It’s also worse to host a theme that is awkward and/or no one has ever even heard of. Would you want to attend an extremely awkward “senior citizen” party? (This was an actual theme party my friend has attended. Needless to say, it was not very popular and the theme hasn’t been used since.) People want to be excited about the theme, their costume, and their friend’s/date’s costume as well, so it is important to deliver to everyone’s expectations.

Overall, my love for theme parties will not dwindle any time soon. Whether you love them or hate them, there’s so much fun to be had. College is about making friends, memories, and creating a learning experience. Theme parties add a little spice to the everyday college town scene, so go to them with excitement and your best costume yet. At the end of the day, these are your college memories that will last, so why not make them a little more interesting with a trash bag dress or American flag boxers? Your Instagram followers will thank you.

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5 Perks Of Having A Long-Distance Best Friend

The best kind of long-distance relationship.

Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.

While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.

This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...

1. Getting to see each other is a special event.

Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.

2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.

This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.

3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.

While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.

4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.

When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.

5. You know they will always be a part of your life.

If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.

The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.

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Cancel Culture Is Toxic And Ugly

Stop deciding for me who I can and cannot like.


I was really hoping that canceled culture died in 2018, but unfortunately here we are in 2019 still "canceling" whoever we personally deem "problematic." Whether it's tweeting from six years ago or falsely made allegations, waves of people will grab on to anything they can to bring down whatever celebrity or influencer seems to be doing well at the moment.

Of course, it is important to bring light to horrible things such as racism, misogyny, domestic abuse, etc., but remember these horrible things are still happening TODAY. We need to focus our energy on combating the horrible things people are currently doing and saying; it is truly such a waste of time to bring up the problematic words and actions that someone in the limelight did almost a decade ago.

Let me be clear, there is no one person I am trying to defend here. I honestly don't care much to personally defend anyone who is being canceled by angry twitter-users who found something just bad enough to hold against them for eternity. I truly just find the idea of it annoying and ugly.

The idea that any person is a completely static, flat character is so inconceivable and unlikely that I truly have a hard time understanding why we cannot accept an apology from a matured person.

If we have no evidence that a person has made any recent damaging remarks, then how can we prove they haven't changed since they tweeted something wrong in 2013?

Of course, there are people who have recently or continuously proven they are indecent people who are not deserving of any sort of public exposure, but if they are truly so horrible, people will drop them without you having to tell them to do so. You don't have to condemn those who still remain loyal; they are probably not the kind of people you need to waste your time on anyway.

If the people canceling others were constantly watched like the people they have damned, I am absolutely sure there is something we could find from their past to cancel them as well.

Sometimes it is hard to remember that famous people are still human beings just like us. Anyone is prone to make mistakes, and those mistakes can absolutely be rectified over time.

Nowadays, people love jumping on the bandwagon of finding a new person to hate and don't even stop to think about the damage it could do to that person's life and reputation.

Give people a chance to prove that they are decent human beings before deciding whether "we" as a whole should love or hate them based on such a small amount of evidence.

I am not saying you have to love every celebrity. If you don't like what someone has said or done you absolutely do not have to give them your attention or devotion, but you should not tell me whether I can like them or not.

In 2019 we should put an end to canceled culture, and, instead, learn to take people at their word and accept their apologies for their past wrongdoings.

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