We Are Not Perfect People, So We Can't Love People Perfectly.

We Are Not Perfect People, So We Can't Love People Perfectly.

A deeper look into the lyrics of "We Dance" by Steffany Gretzinger, Bethel Music.

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Worship songs take on a new meaning when you dig deep into the lyrics and really understand why the songwriter wrote what they wrote. “We Dance” was written by Steffany Gretzinger and Amanda Cook from Bethel Music. It’s an extended metaphor describing her relationship with Jesus as a dance through life. The lyrics reflect on how we are so undone in the presence of God and the way He carries us through every season of life just as He promises. I wanted to write about a verse of the song that really resonated with me recently:

“And I've been told

To pick up my sword

And fight for love

Little did I know

That Love had won for me

Here in Your arms”

I love this verse because it’s so relevant to what today’s society tries to tell us about love. It’s so easy to believe that love should be earned. It’s easy to look at people who seem to have their life together think that they’re more deserving of love than we are, but God tells us that despite our mess ups and faults, He’s already here to love us completely and He always has been. We don’t have to fight for love; we don’t even have to try and earn it. We are so undeserving of God’s love but He pours it out upon us anyway. He doesn't just give it to us, He lavishes His love upon us.

I’m sure you’ve seen the quote circulating the internet, “The Bible says love never fails so if it fails, it wasn’t love”. In a sense, this is true. Perfect love never fails but the only one who can love perfectly is Jesus.

We are humans. We are not perfect people, so we can’t love people perfectly.

We will fail. We will sin.

We will fail Jesus, we will fail our friends, our boyfriends/girlfriends, and our husbands/wives. When we fail, it does not in any way mean that we do not love these people; it means we are humans and we make mistakes.

By mainly looking for love and acceptance in relationships with other people I have found myself being let down and feeling broken and disappointed.

I have now come to understand that the people in my life don't hurt or disappoint me because they don’t love me, but because we're humans and we all fail. I'm learning that in my relationships with other people they will fall short and I will too. There is only one God who never falls short, who is always more than enough; whose love is unconditional and never-ending, and this love doesn’t have to be earned, it is freely given.

The One who loves me most is the One who knows my every step before I take it. God knows my saddest thoughts and my heart's desires. He knows when I choose to run from Him and reject His voice, but still, He loves me all the same.

The deepest love there has already fought for me so I don’t have to.

Cover Image Credit: Grace Jicha Photography

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17 Empowering Bible Verses For Women

You go, girl.

We all have those days where we let the negative thoughts that we're "not good enough," "not pretty enough" or "not smart enough" invade our minds. It's easy to lose hope in these situations and to feel like it would be easier to just give up. However, the Bible reminds us that these things that we tell ourselves are not true and it gives us the affirmations that we need. Let these verses give you the power and motivation that you're lacking.

1. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future."

2. Psalm 46:5

"God is within her, she will not fall."

3. Luke 1:45

"Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her."

4. Proverbs 31:17

"She is energetic and strong, a hard worker."

5. Psalm 28:7

"The Lord is my strength and my shield."

6. Proverbs 11:16

"A gracious woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth."

7. Joshua 1:9

"Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."

8. Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised."

9. 1 Corinthians 15:10

"By the grace of God, I am what I am."

10. Proverbs 31:26

"When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness."

11. Psalm 139:14

"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

12. 1 Peter 3:3-4

"Don't be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."

13. Colossians 2:10

"And in Christ you have been brought to fullness."

14. 2 Timothy 1:7

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

15. Jeremiah 29:11

"'For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.'"

16. Exodus 14:14

"The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm."

17. Song of Songs 4:7

"You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way."

Next time you're feeling discouraged or weak, come back to these verses and use them to give you the strength and power that you need to conquer your battles.

Cover Image Credit: Julia Waterbury

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Calling People Hateful Is Not A Productive Dialogue

Universities have become a breeding ground for intolerance.


The political climate is rough. I don't enjoy commenting on it because of how controversial it has become. Every once in a while, however, I come across something that rubs me the wrong way.

As I was walking through campus the other day, chalked on the side of a cement wall was a phrase claiming the College Republican club on campus was a hate group. I don't know anything about the person who wrote this statement or anything about the College Republican group on campus, but I do know one thing: this statement is false.

Universities have become a breeding ground for intolerance.

Just because someone has a different opinion from you doesn't mean they are hateful. There is room for disagreement.

A psychology professor of mine once said something that impacted my perspective toward both political parties: "Both sides think they're right, but both sides can't be right." Both sides make decisions based on what they think is right. A person's opinion is not "wrong" if it differs from yours. It's just different.

It's important to recognize that people won't always agree with you, and that's okay. That doesn't give you the right to call them mean or hateful. It allows an entrance into discussion. Besides, if you want to persuade someone that your belief is more accurate, name calling won't get you anywhere. It will only cause the other person to view you as inconsiderate and unwilling to understand.

How can you convince someone to believe you when you won't listen to their perspective? How can you expect people to listen to you when you won't do the same in return? Not only is it important to recognize a person's beliefs, it's important to understand why they believe what they do.

In order for people to engage in productive dialogue, both sides need to listen to each other and respect each other. Tossing labels around progresses nowhere and doesn't benefit anyone.

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